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08-28-2002, 10:29 AM
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what defines a slut?
Well i'm just leaving for work and reading over some of these posts and i'm wondering what people think it takes to be a slut.
Is it a the number of guys a girl has slept with? The time it took her to sleep with them? Do they have to be out of a relationship to count towards her slut factor? Does this also apply to guys? My ex had slept with some 10guys (1 being me :( ) in 5-6 years, i considered her a slut. Your thoughts? |
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08-28-2002, 10:44 AM
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Well...I don't think the time/sex factor really makes someone a slut...maybe they just like sex...i thik people who leave relationships just to have sex with someone...or cheating on someone...i dunno i just can't really explain it...
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08-28-2002, 10:45 AM
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slut Pronunciation Key (slt)
n. A woman considered sexually promiscuous. A woman prostitute. A slovenly woman; a slattern. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- [Middle English slutte.] -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- sluttish adj. sluttishˇly adv. sluttishˇness n. slutty adj. slut \Slut\, n. [OE. slutte; cf. OD. slodde a slut, Icel. sl["o]ttr a heavy, loglike fellow, slota to droop.] 1. An untidy woman; a slattern. Sluts are good enough to make a sloven's porridge. --Old Proverb. 2. A servant girl; a drudge. [Obs.] Our little girl Susan is a most admirable slut, and pleases us mightly, doing more service than both the others. --Pepys. 3. A female dog; a B*tch.
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08-28-2002, 10:47 AM
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That's a really good question. I think what makes a slut is a girl that just does not have respect for herself. My first time was when I was 17. Say I slept with 4 guys over the course of a year since that time. Lets say they were guys that I dated briefly for say a month or two. I'll be 21 in about a month and a half so we'll just round up and say I'm 21. 4 x4 would come out to 16. 16 guys, yeah that's a lot right? But I know that I'm not a slut. These are guys that I dated. Stuff a.k.a sex is going to start to happen after several weeks. It just happens as you get more comfortable and in tune with a person. This really isn't my case because all the guys that I start to see turn out to be tools. But it's just an example of why you shouldn't make a judgement on someone because of a number. Girls that do things sexually with a guy because he has a nice car or will buy her stuff if she puts out is obviously a slut. Girls that do it for attention are sluts. If I go to a party on Sat and hookup that's not big deal. But if I went to one Fri and had done the same thing, that would be slutty. I guess a lot of it is just how a girl presents herself and how much self respect she has.
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08-28-2002, 10:53 AM
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I"m 22...2 girls in 22 years....i don't think i'm a slut.
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08-28-2002, 10:53 AM
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YES, thats it...kinda what i was trying to say.
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08-28-2002, 11:19 AM
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What a good girl you are just kidding  I'm assuming that Mr Rogers is one of the 2? No but seriously, I have a lot of respect for your number because there are sooooooo many guys that just bang because they feel like it and that's not fair. |
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08-28-2002, 11:20 AM
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thank you.
to me the best part of sex was/is the cuddle after.  |
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08-28-2002, 11:38 AM
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You're making me feel alone now
 That's sweet. Here we go again with the wrong reason for wanting to be in a relationship. I'm going to go home and cuddle with my pillow. Maybe that'll take some of the edge off. |
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08-28-2002, 11:52 AM
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Thats what i thought, so I went and bought a couple bigger pillows, doesn't work as well as i'd like it to, but then again it is better then nothing
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08-28-2002, 11:54 AM
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Try a warming pad.. Itll make you feel like theres body heat there.
Sorry, Im just playing..
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08-28-2002, 11:56 AM
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**Mental note***
heating pad |
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08-28-2002, 12:50 PM
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LOL. Do you know if they have vibrating heating pads? just kidding.
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08-28-2002, 12:57 PM
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lol
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08-28-2002, 12:58 PM
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I'm sure that we could come up with something
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08-28-2002, 01:25 PM
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How weird would that be if you went over a girls house and she had a warm, vibrating pillow?
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08-28-2002, 01:34 PM
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I thought thats what the tickle me Elmo doll was for..  
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08-28-2002, 01:38 PM
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good call |
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08-28-2002, 01:40 PM
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LMAO. a slut is a slut and i have no more coments
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08-28-2002, 01:42 PM
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Hmmm. Now I know why I got one of those as a gift.
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08-28-2002, 01:47 PM
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just squeeze it with your thighs and you're good to go, don't even have to use your hands.
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08-28-2002, 02:03 PM
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OMG. I was not at all prepared for that post. I just got some pizza crust lodged in my throat because I read it and then had mental images and was a little shocked.
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08-28-2002, 02:22 PM
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You know, you can get fired for mental images like that at work dont you..
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08-28-2002, 02:25 PM
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08-28-2002, 02:52 PM
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Ok well, do me a favor. Just don't tell anyone ok? I might be skating on thin ice for always using the phrase "Write that down".
No, but I really do say that. People get mad. |
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08-28-2002, 03:31 PM
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Glad to know Im not the only one.. How do they expect you to remember if they dont write it down.. duh!
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08-28-2002, 03:54 PM
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see one thing i have trouble with his seeing a girl whos been around a bit, doesn't that get to you after a while?
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08-28-2002, 03:55 PM
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Yes it does me, thats why I married one that hadnt..
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08-28-2002, 04:34 PM
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I'm the same way about that too. I would never be able to be with someone that's been around a lot. When you're just banging to bang all the time because you feel like it, that doesn't really show that you feel that it's sacred thing. And it really is! I don't really care how corny that sounds either. I speak what I feel.
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08-28-2002, 04:35 PM
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It is special, thats why i've only been with 2 people
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08-28-2002, 04:46 PM
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As great it would be...not everyone thinks like you  |
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08-28-2002, 04:48 PM
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thats right...i'm different.
my mom says its ok to be different. |
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08-28-2002, 04:54 PM
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Mom always said, "Don't play ball in the house". Eh, my mom gets mad at me for being different sometimes because she does not like a lot of the music that I listen to. But that's only when it's loud.
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08-28-2002, 04:55 PM
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she also likes it when you let the air conditioner run when it doesn't need to be
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08-28-2002, 04:59 PM
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Yeah but I like for it to be really cold so I don't get too hot with the vibrating, heated pillow. No, seriously though I want it cold because I love getting all bundled up in the soft blankets.
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08-28-2002, 05:23 PM
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chicks that like to cuddle ROCK! |
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08-28-2002, 09:19 PM
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Thanks, I've been doing it since I was little. I'm a pro at it. I get all sorts of bundled up like ET does in the basket.
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08-28-2002, 09:19 PM
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Thanks, I've been doing it since I was little. I'm a pro at it. I get all sorts of bundled up like ET does in the basket.
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08-28-2002, 09:39 PM
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Yes it is a special thing, even to me.. and thats why im still a virgin (yes a 19 year old male virgin holy shit).. even thought i guess i have had chances, it just doesnt seem right.. and i haven't been in any serious relationships... oh well... itll happen when it happens, life doesn't revolve around sex.. ps my tires still rub
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08-28-2002, 09:47 PM
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Good for you. In many ways, I still wish that I had waited. That can't be an easy thing, especially for a guy when you have had chances.
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