Need some relationship help!

Originally posted by AccordinStyle
That's a tough one...in my experience what you might think is love might just be lust or a "I want her because I might not be able to have her" feeling......

You've invested a year of your life with this girl so obviously there are still gonna be some kind of feelings....and hopefully on both parts (meaning you AND her). Hmmm....let me ask you this...if you met a girl tomorrow that was really attractive and you had alot in common with, would you still think of your ex or would you want to see what's up with this new girl?

To answer your question I would want to see what is up with the new girl. I dont know what my feelings are for my ex. I was confused by them, thats why I went to her and told her what i did. But all in all I think leaving it alone now and letting her and the new guy do their thing is better for her. I do know there is physical attractiion there. But I dont know if there is love or not. And thats why im so hesitant. She has something good there and not guarentees with me.. so......