Turned down

If your going to try to argue, at least do it right......I am with my b/f now. We are DATING.....you with me so far. Dating is different imo than "talking" or "seeing" or "getting to know someone".

When I want to be in a relationship, I look for something long term, with potential, hence the reason I am with my b/f. Which is why all my "relationships" have been at least a yr. You can "talk" to a million different people. When I want to settle down and be with someone, that is exactly what I do.

Maybe people label stuff differently, but I don't think you have to "date" every person your with. Getting to know someone or just doing things with a person and getting to know them is different. Thats how you see if a potential is there. If not, then you don't have to go thru the whole break-up or whatever you wanna call it. If people didn't do this, they'd never know what type of person they truly want or need.

Im glad I've slept with 14 guys, if you think thats too many, then that is your opinion. My point is that I am not a slut nor do I carry myself as one or think like one. To some that may be a high number, to others it might be average. If I didn't experience the things I have, and talk and hang out with many different people, I would never know what I wanted when I was looking for a husband, or future long-term mate.

Now that I've experienced all that, I have found someone, who I know I will probably be with the rest of my life and marry. At least I know I'll be happy, and if that was the result of sleeping with 14 guys, then Im satisfied.....and you and the rest of the board that think Im a slut can keep your opinion. The truth remains that you don't know me personally, and your concluding your facts based on a number??? You are the first people that have ever called me a slut. So what does that say. Thank you very much