Some people just don't get it (me)

Originally posted by hondaman-iac
well when i asked that it was late at night and she was a bit tired, so that's why she must have avoided the question

Come on, STOP MAKING EXCUSES FOR HER! She was tired? Was she just not talking at all? Did she have a sore throat? Was she thirsty? Sorry I just don't think that's acceptable. Don't be an enabler! Get on that! I'm serious. You should have asked her the next day. I really hope you know that I'm not yelling at you Just at the situation. Rather than you sharing your feelings this time, really REALLY try and get her to share hers. And if you think asking her late at night will have some bearing over if you can get a straight answer out of her, ask her in the day.