Some people just don't get it (me)

Talk to her, and be completely honest. Without good communitcation, nothing will work. Don't let it be false or only half truth what each of you say, make it clear you want her to be honest, even if it means hearing something you don't like. All will turn out for the best in the end. Please just go talk to her!!!! If you don't tell her how you feel, some other dude could be going up to her right now bustin game and you could lose the opportunity, just look at it that way. GOOD LUCK