.:HSTuners::

AkimboStylee · 08-07-2006, 03:57 AM

Well the day came today when the GF had to go to the hospital to be induced. (and the wi-fi here sucks.) she said she will castraite me if i leave her side when she's out of labor (they won't let me in the delivery room for insurance reasons (her sister is her birhting coach which means i don't have to be there). so i will be in and out of here for a few weeks, rediscovering myself as a father. i will post up any pics that she will let me take(of the baby you sicko's!) and the birth notice. well off to go find out what food i can get, and see if i can see any real horrible accident victims or shit like that, have to stay sane you know.

Racing Rice · 08-07-2006, 09:01 AM

Good luck and Congrats!

I feel your pain about hospitals though, they suck balls.

*ChrisCantSkate* · 08-07-2006, 09:14 AM

yeah man congrats... if this is the worst part for you then your doing ok. its gonna be stressful for anyone.

i was stuck in our UCF health center for an hour and a half the other day dealing with my goddamn broke thumb and i just hate when they sit you in a room, wait 10 mins talk to you for 2 mins then move you to another room and do it again 3 or 4 more times

GT40FIED · 08-07-2006, 09:31 AM

Insurance reasons? What the fuck does that mean? Men have been hanging out in delivery rooms for hundreds of years. Then again...if I actually saw a baby being born I wouldn't ever want to have sex again. Maybe the insurance thing is so you don't need a script for Viagra.

Congrats anyway man. Kids aren't for me, but some people seem to like them.

*ChrisCantSkate* · 08-07-2006, 12:22 PM

maybe because they arnt married or her sister was the one who went to the classes so she knew what to do in there and they didnt want to put some kid(no offence, its just how they see you) in the O.R. who dosnt know whats going on

IALuder · 08-07-2006, 03:26 PM

congrads on the kid. keep us updated.

*KwikR6* · 08-08-2006, 12:20 AM

I became an uncle today. so that's cool.

GT40FIED · 08-08-2006, 12:51 AM

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Originally Posted by KwikR6

I became an uncle today. so that's cool.

Yeah...an uncle fucker.

AkimboStylee · 08-08-2006, 08:00 AM

well, were back from the hospital.
(the doctors had her under observation and came to a conlusion that she has at least another week, which is what some of the complications of the natural birth were)
So i took a vacation form work for two weeks, and promissed her i would be there when she is awake and responsful, only after i did somethings for my parents:(ie: move out the rest of my stuff thats at thier house, and our stuff at her place to our new home(renting it from a friend of the family's, its a four bedroom house and a two car garage that extends half way up the second story, all for 450 a month) all of which she doesn't know about).
Also she doesn't know that i got a second job working in a service shop (owned by the guy the renting me the house). He promissed 50 hours a week (not all the hours are shop related, i also get to test drive customer vehicles, parts pick up, shop organization and computor integration(we do a lot of contract work for a company called Harris who does govt contract vehiles with navigation and communication equipment))
He said that he will pay me basically a salary of 1250 a week and have shop managerial responsabilities. the hours are from 4:30 A.M. (he said i don't really have to be there until 7, but pay would start at 4:30) and untill i feel like im not needed. which means i will be home when she goes to work so i can watch over Hannah (its a girl by the way, the baby of course).
all the money earned in 12-18 months is going into a savings account, where half is left in Hannah's name for when she turns 18,and the other half, well the other half will be spent on renovating the house (it was built in the 60's) when that goal is accomplished, im leaving my first job (restaurant work) and possibly taking over a bay at the shop for in car entertainment purposes(my expertise). well sorry to bore you but i have had an eventfull couple of days, and only more eventfull days to come. /end novel pt.1

Robert · 08-08-2006, 09:34 AM

That sounds exciting. Are you planning on getting married?

*Addict* · 08-08-2006, 09:41 AM

Good luck man. I think you may need to rethink the 2 jobs thing. You're going to need to be there for a while until she gets things rolling. Plus, why keep the restaurant job? 1250/week is pretty goos salary.

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Originally Posted by GT40FIED

Insurance reasons? What the fuck does that mean? Men have been hanging out in delivery rooms for hundreds of years. Then again...if I actually saw a baby being born I wouldn't ever want to have sex again. Maybe the insurance thing is so you don't need a script for Viagra.

That makes no sense to me either. I was with my wife's friend (wife was there too of course) right up to the point. I chose to leave. Weird.

AkimboStylee · 08-09-2006, 01:24 AM

well i did pop the question a few months ago, and she said yes, but we are not planning on getting married for at least a yr or two. I work only 18 hrs at the restaurant and its on the weekends (7.15 an hr plus tips) so im bringing in close to 400 a night (wine steward, tips are considered nightly bar tip out, and 20% of all bottles sold so im keeping the job for fun.)

the insurance thing is because lately a lot of people have been getting in the way, passing out, and also it falls under the docter patient confidentiallity act thing. thats what they told me, plus i think it might be that were not married either, but like steve siad, i dont want to be in there.

Robert · 08-09-2006, 06:16 AM

I wont want to see the damage being done to my wife when we want to have kids, I completely understand.

As for the marriage, way to go buddy. Best to wait until she's a little slimmer for the wedding photos too :P

*Addict* · 08-09-2006, 06:35 AM

Yeah I dont think I'd want to see that area, but I'd like to be present.

Don't rush on the marriage thing. Take your time and do it when you're both ready. Believe it or not there are couples that have been together many years, have children and still aren't married. Though in today's world alot of people frown on it.

Robert · 08-09-2006, 06:38 AM

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Originally Posted by Addict

Don't rush on the marriage thing. Take your time and do it when you're both ready. Believe it or not there are couples that have been together many years, have children and still aren't married. Though in today's world alot of people frown on it.

I think in the long run its better for the childern. It brings an added level of commitmet to the relationship.

Mischief · 08-09-2006, 09:53 AM

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Originally Posted by Robert

I think in the long run its better for the childern. It brings an added level of commitmet to the relationship.

Pretty sure I don't need a piece of paper saying I'm with someone. If you're not commited just because you're not married there's a problem.

08-07-2006, 03:57 AM	#1
AkimboStylee Registered User Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: The Bay which holds no water, Palm Bay, Fl Age: 40 Posts: 1,688	I F** Hate Hospitals. Well the day came today when the GF had to go to the hospital to be induced. (and the wi-fi here sucks.) she said she will castraite me if i leave her side when she's out of labor (they won't let me in the delivery room for insurance reasons (her sister is her birhting coach which means i don't have to be there). so i will be in and out of here for a few weeks, rediscovering myself as a father. i will post up any pics that she will let me take(of the baby you sicko's!) and the birth notice. well off to go find out what food i can get, and see if i can see any real horrible accident victims or shit like that, have to stay sane you know. __________________ A very good quote : " I have many vices in my life, and those keep me from perfection, and not being perfect makes me a human being with morals" -Anonymous

08-07-2006, 09:01 AM	#2
Racing Rice Project Combat Honda Join Date: Sep 2001 Location: Highland,OH Age: 46 Posts: 7,985	Good luck and Congrats! I feel your pain about hospitals though, they suck balls. __________________ Racing Rice

08-07-2006, 09:14 AM	#3
ChrisCantSkate Thought Police Join Date: Aug 2001 Location: orlando florida Age: 41 Posts: 9,662	yeah man congrats... if this is the worst part for you then your doing ok. its gonna be stressful for anyone. i was stuck in our UCF health center for an hour and a half the other day dealing with my goddamn broke thumb and i just hate when they sit you in a room, wait 10 mins talk to you for 2 mins then move you to another room and do it again 3 or 4 more times __________________ Black Vtec Prelude-h22a power'd Many dreams come true, and some have silver linings. I live for my dreams and a pocket full of gold.

08-07-2006, 09:31 AM	#4
GT40FIED Best...mod...ever Join Date: Sep 2001 Location: At the end of the longest line Age: 43 Posts: 7,451	Insurance reasons? What the fuck does that mean? Men have been hanging out in delivery rooms for hundreds of years. Then again...if I actually saw a baby being born I wouldn't ever want to have sex again. Maybe the insurance thing is so you don't need a script for Viagra. Congrats anyway man. Kids aren't for me, but some people seem to like them. __________________ 1984 1/2 Mustang GT350 #842, Faster than you...nuff said Anna Fan Club President/Dictator Someday, in the event that mankind actually figures out what it is that this world actually revoles around, thousands of people are going to be shocked and perplexed that it was not them. Sometimes this includes me. "If you want a vision of the future, imagine a boot stamping on a human face - forever." - George Orwell Welcome to the new Amerika

08-07-2006, 12:22 PM	#5
ChrisCantSkate Thought Police Join Date: Aug 2001 Location: orlando florida Age: 41 Posts: 9,662	maybe because they arnt married or her sister was the one who went to the classes so she knew what to do in there and they didnt want to put some kid(no offence, its just how they see you) in the O.R. who dosnt know whats going on __________________ Black Vtec Prelude-h22a power'd Many dreams come true, and some have silver linings. I live for my dreams and a pocket full of gold.

08-07-2006, 03:26 PM	#6
IALuder Registered User Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: Des Moines IA Age: 39 Posts: 7,908	congrads on the kid. keep us updated. __________________ 93 Si H23vtec......soon to be 12lbs 95 Civic EX....automatic DD if you cant dazzle them with your brillance, baffle them with your bullshit.

08-08-2006, 12:20 AM	#7
KwikR6 Mind Blowing Join Date: Oct 2001 Location: Cloud 69 Age: 45 Posts: 8,871	I became an uncle today. so that's cool. __________________ I JDM. I My Honda The epitome of stupidity is expressed so fluidly with the shity lyric theory you try to spit at me. I CAN'T WAIT FOR SUMMER!!!

08-08-2006, 08:00 AM	#9
AkimboStylee Registered User Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: The Bay which holds no water, Palm Bay, Fl Age: 40 Posts: 1,688	well, were back from the hospital. (the doctors had her under observation and came to a conlusion that she has at least another week, which is what some of the complications of the natural birth were) So i took a vacation form work for two weeks, and promissed her i would be there when she is awake and responsful, only after i did somethings for my parents:(ie: move out the rest of my stuff thats at thier house, and our stuff at her place to our new home(renting it from a friend of the family's, its a four bedroom house and a two car garage that extends half way up the second story, all for 450 a month) all of which she doesn't know about). Also she doesn't know that i got a second job working in a service shop (owned by the guy the renting me the house). He promissed 50 hours a week (not all the hours are shop related, i also get to test drive customer vehicles, parts pick up, shop organization and computor integration(we do a lot of contract work for a company called Harris who does govt contract vehiles with navigation and communication equipment)) He said that he will pay me basically a salary of 1250 a week and have shop managerial responsabilities. the hours are from 4:30 A.M. (he said i don't really have to be there until 7, but pay would start at 4:30) and untill i feel like im not needed. which means i will be home when she goes to work so i can watch over Hannah (its a girl by the way, the baby of course). all the money earned in 12-18 months is going into a savings account, where half is left in Hannah's name for when she turns 18,and the other half, well the other half will be spent on renovating the house (it was built in the 60's) when that goal is accomplished, im leaving my first job (restaurant work) and possibly taking over a bay at the shop for in car entertainment purposes(my expertise). well sorry to bore you but i have had an eventfull couple of days, and only more eventfull days to come. /end novel pt.1 __________________ A very good quote : " I have many vices in my life, and those keep me from perfection, and not being perfect makes me a human being with morals" -Anonymous Last edited by AkimboStylee : 08-08-2006 at 08:03 AM.

08-08-2006, 09:34 AM	#10
Robert R-Tard Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 612	That sounds exciting. Are you planning on getting married?

08-09-2006, 01:24 AM	#12
AkimboStylee Registered User Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: The Bay which holds no water, Palm Bay, Fl Age: 40 Posts: 1,688	well i did pop the question a few months ago, and she said yes, but we are not planning on getting married for at least a yr or two. I work only 18 hrs at the restaurant and its on the weekends (7.15 an hr plus tips) so im bringing in close to 400 a night (wine steward, tips are considered nightly bar tip out, and 20% of all bottles sold so im keeping the job for fun.) the insurance thing is because lately a lot of people have been getting in the way, passing out, and also it falls under the docter patient confidentiallity act thing. thats what they told me, plus i think it might be that were not married either, but like steve siad, i dont want to be in there. __________________ A very good quote : " I have many vices in my life, and those keep me from perfection, and not being perfect makes me a human being with morals" -Anonymous

08-09-2006, 06:16 AM	#13
Robert R-Tard Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 612	I wont want to see the damage being done to my wife when we want to have kids, I completely understand. As for the marriage, way to go buddy. Best to wait until she's a little slimmer for the wedding photos too :P

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