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Old 06-19-2006, 01:12 PM   #1
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I'd feel sorry for her in your shoes. You onced loved her and for her to be in this situation and take joy from it is twisted.

NO matter how much someoen hurts you its bad to take joy in someone's suffering.
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Old 06-19-2006, 01:16 PM   #2
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I'd feel sorry for her in your shoes. You onced loved her and for her to be in this situation and take joy from it is twisted.

NO matter how much someoen hurts you its bad to take joy in someone's suffering.
You need to understand the situation a little more. He gave her a chance to change and she didn't. Now he got hurt as a result of it. I'm sure he feels a little better when he sees her getting treated as bad (or worse).

From my perspective, she was a nice person. But she fucked over my friend so I have no remorse for the things that happen to her. Grass is always greener on the other side right?

Life is what you make of it. Your decisions may not impact you immediately, but eventually they will impact your life.
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Old 06-19-2006, 01:55 PM   #3
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I'd feel sorry for her in your shoes. You onced loved her and for her to be in this situation and take joy from it is twisted.

NO matter how much someoen hurts you its bad to take joy in someone's suffering.


The only reason I feel any sympathy for her is because of the fact that she had the choice. She had no sympathy for me over the last 5 months while she mentally abused me and played games with my emotions. She lied to my face and treated me like shit, even after I put myself on the line and tried to give her a second chance. I don't hate her, but I think that it's time for her to see what the real life is like since she choose to ignore my warnings. She has done nothing for me..

I asked her to go to the insurance company and remove her and her SUV from the policy so that I wouldn't have to mess removing and setting up all of the EFT withdrawls, the house insurance is all tied in with everything. It would have been much more simple for her to start a new policy and remove her stuff from mine. She told me that she would. Well, the Friday before last I went in there to pay the house insurance and I asked them if she had removed her stuff. They told me no. When I called her and asked her why she stated that she shouldn't have to, and she doesn't want to have to pay $150 for the first two months.. This fvcking whore is going to cost me over $1000 for a lawyer and various other stuff, and she doesn't want to spend $150. So I'm stuck paying her damn car insurance until I can dig up enough money to remove all of my stuff and start a new policy.

I wouldn't even cry at her funeral.. I still have life insurance policies on her.
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Old 06-23-2006, 02:41 AM   #4
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This fvcking whore is going to cost me over $1000 for a lawyer and various other stuff, and she doesn't want to spend $150. So I'm stuck paying her damn car insurance until I can dig up enough money to remove all of my stuff and start a new policy.

I wouldn't even cry at her funeral.. I still have life insurance policies on her.

The decision is obvious... accidents happen.
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The decision is obvious... accidents happen.


As tempting as it is.. I don't think I could do it.
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Old 07-03-2006, 10:24 AM   #6
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I'd feel sorry for her in your shoes. You onced loved her and for her to be in this situation and take joy from it is twisted.

You truely do live in a fairy tale world don't you. The day reality slaps you in the face and kicks your ass is the day I laugh dude.

As for you Jer. Good for you. I had 4 chicks or so cheat on me. I lost count and personally. I could give a fuck less about them. And if they hurt or are sad or whatever. Too bad for them. I'm not.
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Old 07-04-2006, 06:40 AM   #7
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You truely do live in a fairy tale world don't you. The day reality slaps you in the face and kicks your ass is the day I laugh dude.


Interesting how you assume how I live and its amazing that you would take pleasure in my failure. You sound like a REALLY nice person....
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He's got a point Rob. You tend to see the things in extreme versions of black and white. If you've never had a girl cheat on you, my hats off. If you have, you'll know there's a certain joy to be taken when someone turns around and gives her a taste of her own medicine. There's nothing mean or vindictive about it...it's just watching things come full circle. For instance, speaking hypothetically, say you were dating a girl who'd cheated on her boyfriend to be with you. Would you expect her to NOT cheat on you? Well...if you wouldn't expect that, you're an idiot.

I'm whole-heartedly in agreement with Derek. You should never take pity upon those who have wronged you when the tables turn against them. I'm a firm believer in the fact that once you love someone you can never truely hate them, but that doesn't mean you can't relish in their demise at their own hands. It's sort of a reap what you sow sorta thing.
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Old 07-04-2006, 02:28 PM   #9
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He's got a point Rob. You tend to see the things in extreme versions of black and white. If you've never had a girl cheat on you, my hats off. If you have, you'll know there's a certain joy to be taken when someone turns around and gives her a taste of her own medicine. There's nothing mean or vindictive about it...it's just watching things come full circle. For instance, speaking hypothetically, say you were dating a girl who'd cheated on her boyfriend to be with you. Would you expect her to NOT cheat on you? Well...if you wouldn't expect that, you're an idiot.

I'm whole-heartedly in agreement with Derek. You should never take pity upon those who have wronged you when the tables turn against them. I'm a firm believer in the fact that once you love someone you can never truely hate them, but that doesn't mean you can't relish in their demise at their own hands. It's sort of a reap what you sow sorta thing.

I understand where Jer is coming from, but I truly think its just anger. His ex-wife has made a serious mistake, one that cannot be corrected.

I also understand what you're trying to say wiht your explain, however its often hard to judge someone on their past. Alot of people learn from their pasts and others don't. Without individually judging each situation you cannot understand.

In your example one might assume the girl would cheat again, however maybe she learned the pain that came with that. It's not always as black/white or as simple as just one thing.

As for the black/white comment, its just my opinion. Maybe you're right, I often do have a polorized position. Just dont think that should encourage otehrs to wish me poorly so they can take joy from it.
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