comment plz

[Wren57]

Agreed... if you care about what this guy thinks, talk to him... if you don't, then date the girl. I had a really really similar situation last november; I was dating this girl and introduced one of her friends to one of my friends and they started dating... well when me and my girl broke up the girl that was dating my friend wanted to date me instead. I chose my friend over the girl... I lost no friends and they are still dating so it worked out. Talking to him about it would show respect and probably make you better friends and he'd probably agree to y'all dating.

[GT40FIED]

This actually reminds me of something that happened when I was a teenager. Since me and my brother are only about a year and a half apart, we had a lot of the same friends. He was dating the girl who we'll call Amanda. Me and Amanda were friends but really only because she was dating my brother and I always had a bit of a thing for her. Well...when they broke up, I became her shoulder to cry on. It was the first time in my life I realized how pitying someone and wanting to fuck them can get all tangled up in your head. You know...overwhelming sadness, meanwhile you've got a rodney in your pants. Is that sick? Yeah...yeah...I think that's kinda sick. Anyway, eventually we talked about how we both liked each other and whatnot so I talked to my brother and he was actually happy. He said she was a great girl but they were just too different and that she would probably be a better fit with me. Nothing really came of the whole thing, but I'm glad I talked to my brother instead of just going for it.