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Robert · 03-22-2006, 10:14 PM

You're more trusting then I would be. FOr someone to have hidden a relationship from me for a few months, then tell me it was only talk; I would be stretching myself a great deal to start believing a liar.

I would see help, I dont believe in divorce either and would get her tested and see a marriage counceler on this one.

JDMFantasy2k · 03-22-2006, 10:53 PM

it's just sad cause we'll fight over the stupidist shit ya know? Like florida got off to a rough start cause we fought in the airport but then the rest of the trip was great and we grew really close.

Today was her birthday and i wanted to make it really special ( i hadn't bought her anything until yesterday cause i didn't know if we'd make it to her b-day). So I left her messages on her myspace, and on AIM, and then i called her up and sung her happy birthday while playing it on my keyboard. Then she came over and i gave her 2 cards (one funny, one serious) a $25 gift certificate to get her nails done and a necklace from gordon's jewelers.. (looks like this http://cgi.ebay.com/NICE-NEW-MULTI-S...QQcmdZViewItem but i payed much more)

So i give it to her and i'm like make sure you like it, otherwise we'll return it. Naturally she pretends to like it untill finally i beat it out of her that she hates it. OK fine, i want you to be happy, we'll get you something you want. So we go to exchange it and she doesn't like anything in the store, so we return it. We go through every jewelery store in the mall and she doesn't find anything she likes. So i'm like i don't know what you want me to do then. She had wanted a tiffanys necklace but being unemployed i don't have that kinda cash right now and i told her i'd even get it for her eventually if she'd just wait. She said no and that she wanted something for her b-day. SO i'm like wtf am i supposed to do.

Then we get in this big fight about how i think she's so materialistic and it's all about her because she should be happy even if i didn't get her shit (like i really wouldn't care if she didn't get me shit for my B-day long as i get laid) but she's so immature and has to be a "princess". And i did everything i could, so i'm like fine i'm taking you home. Naturally i was pissed and made it home in like 10 minutes and the she left. What a fucking waste. i need another beer, blah.

Mischief · 03-22-2006, 11:02 PM

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Originally Posted by JDMFantasy2k

SO i'm like wtf am i supposed to do.

punch her in the vag

JDMFantasy2k · 03-22-2006, 11:31 PM

nah i mean i love the girl, but she has some serious issues she needs to work out, and it's just fucking us both up. I really tried but there's only so much i can do, then she gets bent when i don't know what to do. fuck girls

GT40FIED · 03-23-2006, 12:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Robert

You're more trusting then I would be. FOr someone to have hidden a relationship from me for a few months, then tell me it was only talk; I would be stretching myself a great deal to start believing a liar.

I would see help, I dont believe in divorce either and would get her tested and see a marriage counceler on this one.

Loathe as I am to say it, I agree with Rob. Not to totally shit on your happy ending Jeremy, but there are a lot of holes you didn't fill there. Like why is your wife talking to this guy and not telling you? I don't really see how her telling you about a new male friend would hurt things unless there's a reason he needs to be a secret. You also need to remember what happens when two people who are unhappy get together and start comiserating.

You don't need my advice, but I think you really need to convince your wife to see someone. If she doesn't want to, tough shit. There's no way you'll be able to trust her otherwise if she doesn't. Trust me...I've been down this road before. Nobody wants to accept their own faults, but if things continue the way they've been going then you're going to be the one who becomes the reason she's unhappy.

Robert · 03-23-2006, 07:21 AM

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Originally Posted by GT40FIED

Loathe as I am to say it, I agree with Rob. Not to totally shit on your happy ending Jeremy, but there are a lot of holes you didn't fill there. Like why is your wife talking to this guy and not telling you? I don't really see how her telling you about a new male friend would hurt things unless there's a reason he needs to be a secret. You also need to remember what happens when two people who are unhappy get together and start comiserating.

You don't need my advice, but I think you really need to convince your wife to see someone. If she doesn't want to, tough shit. There's no way you'll be able to trust her otherwise if she doesn't. Trust me...I've been down this road before. Nobody wants to accept their own faults, but if things continue the way they've been going then you're going to be the one who becomes the reason she's unhappy.

This is a first.

To add to the holes.

Where was she last night?
If it was only talk why did she flea the relatioship for an evening to 'stort out her problems' she should come to you to talk?

03-22-2006, 10:53 PM	#2
JDMFantasy2k Registered User Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: northeastern connecticut Age: 38 Posts: 1,765	it's just sad cause we'll fight over the stupidist shit ya know? Like florida got off to a rough start cause we fought in the airport but then the rest of the trip was great and we grew really close. Today was her birthday and i wanted to make it really special ( i hadn't bought her anything until yesterday cause i didn't know if we'd make it to her b-day). So I left her messages on her myspace, and on AIM, and then i called her up and sung her happy birthday while playing it on my keyboard. Then she came over and i gave her 2 cards (one funny, one serious) a $25 gift certificate to get her nails done and a necklace from gordon's jewelers.. (looks like this http://cgi.ebay.com/NICE-NEW-MULTI-S...QQcmdZViewItem but i payed much more) So i give it to her and i'm like make sure you like it, otherwise we'll return it. Naturally she pretends to like it untill finally i beat it out of her that she hates it. OK fine, i want you to be happy, we'll get you something you want. So we go to exchange it and she doesn't like anything in the store, so we return it. We go through every jewelery store in the mall and she doesn't find anything she likes. So i'm like i don't know what you want me to do then. She had wanted a tiffanys necklace but being unemployed i don't have that kinda cash right now and i told her i'd even get it for her eventually if she'd just wait. She said no and that she wanted something for her b-day. SO i'm like wtf am i supposed to do. Then we get in this big fight about how i think she's so materialistic and it's all about her because she should be happy even if i didn't get her shit (like i really wouldn't care if she didn't get me shit for my B-day long as i get laid) but she's so immature and has to be a "princess". And i did everything i could, so i'm like fine i'm taking you home. Naturally i was pissed and made it home in like 10 minutes and the she left. What a fucking waste. i need another beer, blah. __________________

03-22-2006, 11:31 PM	#4
JDMFantasy2k Registered User Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: northeastern connecticut Age: 38 Posts: 1,765	nah i mean i love the girl, but she has some serious issues she needs to work out, and it's just fucking us both up. I really tried but there's only so much i can do, then she gets bent when i don't know what to do. fuck girls __________________

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03-22-2006, 10:14 PM	#1
Robert R-Tard Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 612	You're more trusting then I would be. FOr someone to have hidden a relationship from me for a few months, then tell me it was only talk; I would be stretching myself a great deal to start believing a liar. I would see help, I dont believe in divorce either and would get her tested and see a marriage counceler on this one.