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Racing Rice · 03-21-2006, 12:37 PM

Sounds like a real Drama queen. I dated a girl like that. I don't doubt that she does have problems in her life, but when you use them to your advantage to make people feel sorry for you then it becomes a real problem.

You get stuck feeling sorry for her and think that you could help make life better for her. From my experiences though YOU CAN NOT! They don't want to make life better. They would prefer to keep use these problems as excuses instead of motivation. My suggestion is don't let yourself get to emotionally attached.

GT40FIED · 03-21-2006, 03:24 PM

Shit Jeremy...I can't even imagine what's going through your head. Well...actually I can because my last girlfriend cheated on me. But shit man...we weren't together for anything even close to as long. In my estimation, people of our generation just aren't brought up to stay married. I know people always say the divorce rate is 50%...but I'd say in a few years it's going to go a lot higher. I'm only 24 and I already know too many people who've been fucked over.

Any time you start to suspect anything funny going on, it's usually not much of a leap to bad things (assuming you're a rational person). As they say, "if there's any doubt there is no doubt". Shit man...I can't even imagine being at work at a time like that. Just think of it this way...as long as you're there, you're not at home and shit isn't blowing up.

03-21-2006, 12:37 PM	#1
Racing Rice Project Combat Honda Join Date: Sep 2001 Location: Highland,OH Age: 46 Posts: 7,985	Sounds like a real Drama queen. I dated a girl like that. I don't doubt that she does have problems in her life, but when you use them to your advantage to make people feel sorry for you then it becomes a real problem. You get stuck feeling sorry for her and think that you could help make life better for her. From my experiences though YOU CAN NOT! They don't want to make life better. They would prefer to keep use these problems as excuses instead of motivation. My suggestion is don't let yourself get to emotionally attached. __________________ Racing Rice

03-21-2006, 03:24 PM	#2
GT40FIED Best...mod...ever Join Date: Sep 2001 Location: At the end of the longest line Age: 43 Posts: 7,451	Shit Jeremy...I can't even imagine what's going through your head. Well...actually I can because my last girlfriend cheated on me. But shit man...we weren't together for anything even close to as long. In my estimation, people of our generation just aren't brought up to stay married. I know people always say the divorce rate is 50%...but I'd say in a few years it's going to go a lot higher. I'm only 24 and I already know too many people who've been fucked over. Any time you start to suspect anything funny going on, it's usually not much of a leap to bad things (assuming you're a rational person). As they say, "if there's any doubt there is no doubt". Shit man...I can't even imagine being at work at a time like that. Just think of it this way...as long as you're there, you're not at home and shit isn't blowing up. __________________ 1984 1/2 Mustang GT350 #842, Faster than you...nuff said Anna Fan Club President/Dictator Someday, in the event that mankind actually figures out what it is that this world actually revoles around, thousands of people are going to be shocked and perplexed that it was not them. Sometimes this includes me. "If you want a vision of the future, imagine a boot stamping on a human face - forever." - George Orwell Welcome to the new Amerika

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