Dilemma...

[BlackWolf]

True but is she just in this for the sex part or is interested in a relationship with you? There are people who are married, get bored and want to have some side fun then there are others that want to get out of their bad relationship then jump right in to find another to take his/her place. The latter are the ones to look out for. They seem to regard the new guy as their "saviour" and pretty much rely on you for everything. Literally. Stay away from them. You won't be able to get away from them if things don't work out. The former just sex people are the ones just looking for a good time and don't want any kind of actual relationship. I would say it depends on you and what your values/morals are. Ask her about what's going on and why she's doing/saying this. Being open and honest about what YOU want, prevents alot of bullshit you may NOT want to get youself into.