Need Advice/Comments.

Its a tough call. I guess you have to figure out what your money is really going towards. Its not fair you pay and your child doesnt know about you. That said if they are tight for money you're helping keep clothing on your daughters back.

I personally would let him adopt her because in the long run it will probably be easier on her if she doesnt have to deal with all the extra drama you're dealing with. It would make her life simple and you know, she might never come looking for you.

If you decide to let her go, before you sign any paper work you should think long and hard if you're willling to just let her go. You're no use to her if you're the father that was never around because you couldnt balance your check book. If you dont let her go and she grows up to find you still finacailly strugling it will only re-enforce why her mother kept her away from you.

In the long run its probably better to cut yourself off so you both can swim.