Ok gentlemen

[ShagginJet]

I actually like the idea. Everyone has a list, whether you have it on paper or it's just in your head. Everyone has their type, what they're looking for, and making a "hit" list is just the next step. All he did was take his thoughts and put them on paper.

Do it yourself and see how yours comes out, then maybe you won't feel bad. Since you two are sleeping with one another and you don't consider yourself b/f & g/f then there really isn't much you can say. You've choosen to have this sort of relationship with him, if he wanted to be serious then he would. Knowing that he's coming out of a 3 year deal i'd assume he might be fuxored in the head, i suggest you tread lightly on this one.