Thread for those with time on their hands

Originally posted by highlander
You, Rob... are awesome. Thanks for the good advice, I'll take it to heart. I would, however, like to hear some more ladies' opinions/thoughts on this one... I need all the support I can get right now so I don't screw up and give in (again).

Wren, thank you for those kind words. I think deep down in your heart you know what needs to be done, and nothing anyone ever tells you on here will be able to make you do anything but think.

What you need to do is take sometime for yourself and figure out exactly what it is you want. My guess as a start is it would be someone with similar values as you, something which this ex no longer seems to be displaying. Make it easy on yourself, her actions recently speak louder then her words. If she truly cared for you she wouldnt have slept with him and she would have tried to make things work like it sounds like you've been trying to do. Remember it is easier for a girl to go without sex then a guy. No matter what a girl says women just dont lust as strongly as us guys do. Remember that.

Dont dwell on the wonderful past you had, that is now come and gone. Focus on the future and whats best for you right now but whatever you do stay true to yourself. Giving in to her will now open you up to a future filled with similar troubles like this. Women are horrible when it comes to knowing what they want, just watch them shop. Dont become a victom of her shopping.

Best of luck bro.