has anyone else had this problem

Unless your friends suck d*ck , bend over & crack a smile or have a p*ssy between their respective leggs then- f*ck em'! Who needs friends that determine what you do- be a f*ckin man and do what you want, you like her, then ask her out, if they can't respect that, then punch em in the mouth! That's what I'd do, but yet I wouldn't be in that situation anyway! Good Luck!