Girls piss me off (rant)

[BlackWolf]

Ok, this thread is getting a little confusing.....who exactly is it that is asking for help? I agree with just being yourself but sometimes it helps by not being completely all yourself at one time when you first meet someone. Like playing your music but keeping the volume down and the next time you meet, if they're feeling it, open up a little more and the next time, etc, so eventually you can be in your full volume mode. Not the best analagy but I'm really tired this morning, so I guess the point is, is to be yourself and if they don't like that then you really don't want to be around them anyways. As far as the girl who wouldn't let you in her car, she definately is hiding something from you. May it be good or it may be bad, I couldn't tell you. IMHO, it sounds like all three of you guys (and girl) needs to sit down with these people and ask them whats up? Let them know how you're feeling and your concerns where this is going. If they don't understand why you're doing this, then I don't think they thought they were in a genuine relationship with you in the first place. I've had several "friends" that ran "hot and cold", the best of friends one minute but forgot who you were the next. Needless to say, once I found this out, I don't hang with them anymore. Too psycho for me and I really don't want to deal with this all the time. Way too unreliable. I had to cut the cord to save my sanity and have never looked back knowing it was for the better. There are times when YOU need to look out for YOU. Never rely on others to tell you what to do in a relationship. You are the one involved and the only one who knows how to deal with it, trust your instincts, please. ...........and yes, I took my bitter pill this morning...