Am I the only one?

[Whiteclipse99]

Originally posted by DsBlu01CivEX
The thing about me is that I don't set my standards so high that I know there is absolutely no way of obtaining them. I don't persue the hottest guy I've ever laid eyes on....I don't necessarily want the hottest guy...I want the guy that I'm gonna have the most fun with and be the most relaxed around. I don't base my crushes on looks first. I thend to get my crushes on guys after I get to know them. I tend to do things a lil backwards....

I don't mean to have crushes on guys based on their looks, but you can't help who and who you're not physically attracted to. Of course these crushes come and go. I usually don't pursue those crushes if I find out that they're complete a$$holes and not worth my time. It can go the other way for me too, I may not be attracted to a guy right off the bat, but the more I talk to him and get to know him and I feel a good vibe I may develop a crush then. Those physical crushes for me are all in fun, but if they end up developing into something more worthwhile, then that could be good too. (Think Sixteen Candles and Molly Ringwald's character, Samantha, and her crush on the high school popular boy, Jake)