I've realized something this week/weekend

Accord17: Just because you're that way doesn't mean we're all that way......

D, I agree with a lot and disagree with some. Plenty of guys say they want nice girls and think personality ranks tops. Of course usually that's what they want long term....what they want now may be as simple as a good shag from a hot girl. That doesn't mean they're not interested in a good girl with a good personality...they just may not yet be interested in that.

And commitment? Not everybody's looking for that. Personally, I'd like to find a great girl with a great personality, but I'm by no means ready to settle down with a girl and think marriage. Of course part of me would really like that, even now, but I think I'm a little too young (and way too single ) to get into something that serious......but a steady relationship (another commitment) would float my boat and I'd prefer it over any amount of dating various girls.

I think you're just meeting the wrong guys, quite frankly. There are plenty of good guys out there your age, I've known lots of them. They can just be hard to meet....but hanging out with hot chicks isn't going to find you the guys who want no more than a good girl for a relationship.....because hot girls are magnets for guys who want a piece, like Accord17.

It's funny because my mom always told me advice she was given a long time ago. "Hang out with friends uglier than you, that way you're the pretty one."

b