graduation present ideas

its all about the memories bro and I think thats what becky is getting at. Try to capture the memories of the moment, a neckless will lose its meaning over time but memories last a life time.

Why dont the two of you try something new together, sit down and list of a few things the two of you would like to do together. (dont tell her its for her grad gift of course)

might be something like:
learn to snowboard
sky dive
goto Paris

Then figure out which one you can afford and tick one off the list. In your shoes I would pop the question, but if you aint ready you aint ready.

let us know how it all goes and what you ended up doing.