Guy Friends

[DsBlu01CivEX]

Originally posted by GirlRacer
No, & it's hard to explain...I've just known these guys for years & years & years.

I don't think any of them, including myself does it b/c "O, I'm so lonely, O you are too? Ok, well come over here & we'll keep each other company."

It more happens when 1 of them is in Tulsa, (none live here) & they're out at all hours of the night & don't really feel like driving home. So then rather than sleeping on my couch, they sleep w/me.

Does that help?

I understand, nor am I judging you for what you choose to do....but I just don't understand where the cuddling comes into play. I don't have a problem sleeping in the same bed as my guy friends....but I wouldn't cuddle with them. Especially if I knew they had girlfriends. I guess it's a respect thing (for our friendship and the guy's girlfriend). I dunno. Guess I'm "old-fashioned" and fall in with your mom on that generational gap thing.