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03-19-2003, 08:20 AM

being a guy I figure it would just send the wrong message. These guy friends of yours who have gf's and are doing this aren't doing the right thing. The ones that are single may start to want to become more then "guy friends" and figure you feel the same way because you invite them to spend the night

Basically what I'm trying to say is by doing this you are increasing the chance for a miscommunication on something that could result in lossing a friend or breaking up a relationship that they have.

NOT too mention this isn't typically something alot of girls do. That said it isnt' the reason to do or not to do something. And though nothing is happening it does send out a strange message. If a guy becomes interested in you but knows you have "friends" sleep over, as a guy he doesnt know how to take this. Basically he doesn't know what type of girl you are, because actions speak louder then words. If you're trying to maintain an image that you dont sleep around then having guy friends stay with you probably isn't the best thing.

And if you're filling a void by having these friends stay with you, maybe you want a relationship more then you think. just my 2cents as a guy.

did all that make sense?

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03-19-2003, 08:20 AM	#8
mt.biker Posts: n/a	being a guy I figure it would just send the wrong message. These guy friends of yours who have gf's and are doing this aren't doing the right thing. The ones that are single may start to want to become more then "guy friends" and figure you feel the same way because you invite them to spend the night Basically what I'm trying to say is by doing this you are increasing the chance for a miscommunication on something that could result in lossing a friend or breaking up a relationship that they have. NOT too mention this isn't typically something alot of girls do. That said it isnt' the reason to do or not to do something. And though nothing is happening it does send out a strange message. If a guy becomes interested in you but knows you have "friends" sleep over, as a guy he doesnt know how to take this. Basically he doesn't know what type of girl you are, because actions speak louder then words. If you're trying to maintain an image that you dont sleep around then having guy friends stay with you probably isn't the best thing. And if you're filling a void by having these friends stay with you, maybe you want a relationship more then you think. just my 2cents as a guy. did all that make sense?