I need help

have confidence in yourself. stop thinking about your weight coz chances are the girl doesn't mind at all in the first place. if you always think about your weight then nothing good will happen, weight got nothing to do with relationships, the girl should like you for what you are.

it's true that appearance is the first impression, but you don't have to go up to a girl and tell her right away that you like/love her for her to judge you first on appearance. it's better to befriend the girl first, then show her that you got a nice attitude or personality bcoz thats what counts. if she realize how great a guy you are, then she'll definitely like you.

if a girl is only after the appearance or wealth, she's not worth it coz both of those can fade away over time and if that happens chances are, she'll just dump you. but good personality will stay unless you're just pretending.

so go ahead and befriend her first. one more advantage of befriending her first is you won't get nervous approaching her coz in your mind it's just friendship. you don't get nervous approaching your girl friends don't you? but you'll get nervous if you put it on your mind that you like or love her right?

so just have confidence in yourself and just be yourself. good luck!