.:HSTuners::

Wren57 · 12-09-2004, 03:34 PM

The characters;
Shea, Caroline, JD

Caroline and Shea are friends, but only because Shea is too nice of a person to not be friends with Caroline.

Caroline basically is a bitch. I dated her for a month (oops), then brokeup with her and she has turned into a slut among my group of friends and is basically turning herself into a joke amongst us.

During the first two weeks of dating Caroline, I hooked up JD and Shea. JD is one of my best friends. She is starting not to like him as much, citing one reason as that he isn't that good in the bedroom...

She really likes me, and I really like her... and herein lies the dilemna. Does anyone think it is possible for her to start dating me without JD getting mad and Caroline getting mad? (although we don't really care if Caroline gets mad)

How would I go about this? Shea and I have talked and she is going to break everything off with JD (never technically dating, just a regular hookup type thing), and sometime in January go public about her and myself... In the meantime, I'll have to have a man-to-man with JD about it to ask essentially for permission, because I'm not gonna let a girl ruin a friendship... any thoughts?

ebpda9 · 12-09-2004, 03:36 PM

guys rule #1: never date your buddys gf or ex

BlackWolf · 12-09-2004, 04:09 PM

^^ Ditto. Surgeon delicate. I'd leave it alone.

CD5Passion · 12-09-2004, 06:46 PM

lets just put it like this...if I were JD and you started dating her I'd beat the shit outa ya

i would never consider dating a girl my best friend has even had interest in.

come on man, you don't touch what your best friend has, like stefan said thats the #1 rule

even if he says he cool with it..I'd avoid that at all costs

12-10-2004, 01:26 AM

Yea...that's a danger area right there...I wouldn't do it...but if you're truly sure about this...just be prepared to lose friends and be prepared to be talked about and ridiculed upon.

IALuder · 12-10-2004, 05:46 AM

Bros before hoes mang. dont do it.

12-10-2004, 12:35 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by SFKing
Bros before hoes mang. dont do it.

I don't like that phrase...

MissJDM · 12-10-2004, 04:16 PM

I agree, don't do it.
Oh, this reminds me of Usher song, "You make me wanna"

Good luck though, if ANYTHING, I would say wait awhile until the break up is finished and JD is possibly interested in someone else, at least that way if you and Shea hook up, JD has someone there and most likely won't mind..as much.

Mischief · 12-10-2004, 04:18 PM

Yea if you two are tight I wouldn't try that, it's happened with me before.. Maybe give a month or two for them having not "seen" each other and it might not be as bad

CD5Passion · 12-10-2004, 06:30 PM

no guy wants to see an ex of his with their best friend. thats just not cool

IALuder · 12-11-2004, 08:36 AM

i have to agree with shards. but if my best friend hooked up with my ex. i would say best of luck. for one reason, if i dumped her there has to be a damn good reason.

CD5Passion · 12-11-2004, 09:08 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by SFKing
i have to agree with shards. but if my best friend hooked up with my ex. i would say best of luck. for one reason, if i dumped her there has to be a damn good reason.

that too.

12-09-2004, 03:36 PM	#2
ebpda9 Repost Wagon Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: over here Age: 44 Posts: 17,266	guys rule #1: never date your buddys gf or ex __________________

12-09-2004, 04:09 PM	#3
BlackWolf La Loba Loca Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Nor Cal Posts: 1,016	^^ Ditto. Surgeon delicate. I'd leave it alone. __________________ Does the noise in my head bother you??

12-09-2004, 06:46 PM	#4
CD5Passion Registered User Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: Santa Barbara, California Age: 38 Posts: 5,446	lets just put it like this...if I were JD and you started dating her I'd beat the shit outa ya i would never consider dating a girl my best friend has even had interest in. come on man, you don't touch what your best friend has, like stefan said thats the #1 rule even if he says he cool with it..I'd avoid that at all costs __________________

12-10-2004, 05:46 AM	#6
IALuder Registered User Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: Des Moines IA Age: 38 Posts: 7,908	Bros before hoes mang. dont do it. __________________ 93 Si H23vtec......soon to be 12lbs 95 Civic EX....automatic DD if you cant dazzle them with your brillance, baffle them with your bullshit.

12-10-2004, 04:16 PM	#8
MissJDM Registered User Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: West Coast Age: 38 Posts: 2,244	I agree, don't do it. Oh, this reminds me of Usher song, "You make me wanna" Good luck though, if ANYTHING, I would say wait awhile until the break up is finished and JD is possibly interested in someone else, at least that way if you and Shea hook up, JD has someone there and most likely won't mind..as much. __________________ you say it best when you say nothing at all

12-09-2004, 03:34 PM	#1
Wren57 Registered User Join Date: Feb 2002 Age: 39 Posts: 2,856	Extremely delicate situation... The characters; Shea, Caroline, JD Caroline and Shea are friends, but only because Shea is too nice of a person to not be friends with Caroline. Caroline basically is a bitch. I dated her for a month (oops), then brokeup with her and she has turned into a slut among my group of friends and is basically turning herself into a joke amongst us. During the first two weeks of dating Caroline, I hooked up JD and Shea. JD is one of my best friends. She is starting not to like him as much, citing one reason as that he isn't that good in the bedroom... She really likes me, and I really like her... and herein lies the dilemna. Does anyone think it is possible for her to start dating me without JD getting mad and Caroline getting mad? (although we don't really care if Caroline gets mad) How would I go about this? Shea and I have talked and she is going to break everything off with JD (never technically dating, just a regular hookup type thing), and sometime in January go public about her and myself... In the meantime, I'll have to have a man-to-man with JD about it to ask essentially for permission, because I'm not gonna let a girl ruin a friendship... any thoughts? __________________ yeah, its that big

12-10-2004, 01:26 AM	#5
Kool-Aid Posts: n/a	Yea...that's a danger area right there...I wouldn't do it...but if you're truly sure about this...just be prepared to lose friends and be prepared to be talked about and ridiculed upon.

12-10-2004, 06:30 PM	#10
CD5Passion Registered User Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: Santa Barbara, California Age: 38 Posts: 5,446	no guy wants to see an ex of his with their best friend. thats just not cool __________________

12-11-2004, 08:36 AM	#11
IALuder Registered User Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: Des Moines IA Age: 38 Posts: 7,908	i have to agree with shards. but if my best friend hooked up with my ex. i would say best of luck. for one reason, if i dumped her there has to be a damn good reason. __________________ 93 Si H23vtec......soon to be 12lbs 95 Civic EX....automatic DD if you cant dazzle them with your brillance, baffle them with your bullshit.

Thread Tools
Show Printable Version Email this Page
Display Modes
Linear Mode Switch to Hybrid Mode Switch to Threaded Mode