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*pdiggitydogg* · 10-21-2004, 12:58 AM

...What do you think?

Like I said in the title, Ive already decided what Im going to do, but I thought Id ask here, and make a new thread, for what few members actually post, to whore on.

I am a firm believer in the phrase, "All is fair in love and war."
Seems that the world works that way anyways, whether you want to buy into it or not.

SO...
This girl that Ive been pursuing casually mentions that her bf is her boss's son. Thats the first time in weeks that she's even mentioned a bf, and it wasnt even something like "my bf and I" or "I have a bf, so dont flirt w/ me".
Now, at first this kinda made me stop the charm flow and almost ignore her. But, a few hours later, I decided "WTF? Im going to steal her!"
And thats just what I plan on doing. Im going to continue what Im doing to win her over from the other guy.

Some have told me, "No, you shouldnt do that..." and "That wouldnt be very nice..." and "Id kick your ass if you did that to me" and "Good luck to you...ass" etc. Before any of you say "What if it was you?"...Ive been there twice. Yeah, it wasnt great. But Id have to say, its no worse than any standard "Im sorry, but I think I just wanna be friends now."

Nothing any of you say will change my mind. Things are finally starting to look decent for me, and Im not going to let some 'riced out integra w/ a fart can driving' bf get in my way.
I'll steal his girl and then crush him w/ my jdm-ness!

(That came out longer than I intended)

CD5Passion · 10-21-2004, 01:03 AM

well if she actually cares about him and is the kind of girl you can trust in a relationship she'll punch you in the face.
hell my ex would've, when we were dating and a guy would make a move on her she'd just simply say "fuck you I have a boyfriend" simple as that
now if I could easily steal a girl from another guy that she was happy with than I'd reconsider wanting to have anything more than a fling with her

if she cheats on him for you, then she'll cheat on you for another . just one big circle of drama and pain

*pdiggitydogg* · 10-21-2004, 01:08 AM

Oh shes never told me to buzz off of anything like that. In fact, it seems that she wants me to flirt with her.

Im also not just looking for a fling.

RxGoaT13 · 10-21-2004, 01:19 AM

I would go for it but dont come on to strong let her decide who she wants to be with and make the first move.But i do agree with shards,if she cheats on him with you,whats stopping her from cheating on you with someone else.

mavaaoife · 10-21-2004, 01:22 AM

all i can say is goodluck dude

*pdiggitydogg* · 10-21-2004, 02:23 AM

dont get me wrong here
if she says no, I'll have to stop and do as she asks

IALuder · 10-21-2004, 03:18 AM

do what have been doing. nothing more and nothing less.

itll work out in time.

mavaaoife · 10-21-2004, 01:34 PM

Dude if she didnt want it.. She woulda already told you to back off

ebpda9 · 10-21-2004, 01:41 PM

i think it's time to go back to whacking it

mavaaoife · 10-21-2004, 01:46 PM

Eh dont listen to stefan.. She hasnt shot you down yet

ebpda9 · 10-21-2004, 01:48 PM

neither did his hand

*pdiggitydogg* · 10-21-2004, 01:53 PM

and it never will!
But how did those greenday lyrics go? "When masturbation's lost its fun..." something something

ebpda9 · 10-21-2004, 01:54 PM

try changing the hand lol

mavaaoife · 10-21-2004, 01:55 PM

Eh i dont know about you....but the hand has nothing to the real thing.... and im guessing in his case.. the hand cant compaire to ANY pussy...

MissJDM · 10-21-2004, 09:26 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by pdiggitydogg
Oh shes never told me to buzz off of anything like that. In fact, it seems that she wants me to flirt with her.

Im also not just looking for a fling.

I still think it's the attention she's craving, maybe it has no feelings for you involved. I dunno, I'm happily taken and I see at least 200+ people per day at work and even more at college..but when they start flirting, I don't flirt back, or at least to the extent of attraction. I guess it's up to you//I still think the theory on the endless cheating cycle isn't necessarily true//yet..man, jsdhgklsaehseha terriyaki chicken. yum.

sorry for the lack of help, PAT. :-)

MissJDM · 10-21-2004, 09:27 PM

Actually, at first, I thought I knew what I wanted to say..then as I was typing it, it all just sounded the same. [shrugs]

*ChrisCantSkate* · 10-21-2004, 10:21 PM

i had a very similar thing happen to me not too long ago.. and i walked away. i didnt want the potential drama nd bullshit... i wish i had persued further though looking back on it

Kyle · 10-21-2004, 10:46 PM

You never know whats gonna happen unless you try...so you might as weel just go for it. And if she does start talking about her BF more, that means that you need to back off. As long as you respect their relationship and it's already ended before you guys do anything...go for it

*pdiggitydogg* · 10-21-2004, 11:01 PM

most definately
I am a gentleman (sometimes anyway) and Id never let there be any overlap

IALuder · 10-22-2004, 05:41 AM

if anything goes wrong, i got yo back mang.

GT40FIED · 10-22-2004, 06:15 AM

Man...Pat...it's simple. Of course she's not going to reject flirtation. Most girls love the attention regardless of whether or not they're "involved". The mere fact that she can attract other men is probably enough for her. My advice...tread lightly. Maybe she wants out with her current boyfriend, maybe not. Just remember that attention is probably the key here and it may not be you in particular that's she's interested in. Good luck man.

IALuder · 10-22-2004, 02:35 PM

^has a good point. wemon are always trying to center of attention.

mavaaoife · 10-22-2004, 03:14 PM

Not all of us... i like to hide in the corner...

GT40FIED · 10-22-2004, 05:52 PM

Well I'm not really talking about social attention necessarily. Few people would put a stop to the sort of attention Pat is giving this girl. Women respond particularly well to that sort of attention.

mavaaoife · 10-22-2004, 07:45 PM

I agree.. every girl loves to be flirted with an know that they are socially acceptable for someone else to like them, whether its looks or whatever...

IALuder · 10-22-2004, 08:39 PM

^some like it just a little to much. that they go to far and cant get out. then thats were drama occurs. things get said and people get mad.

MissJDM · 10-22-2004, 09:00 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Mycivicjust8u
Not all of us... i like to hide in the corner...

mavaaoife · 10-22-2004, 09:13 PM

Lookie lookie.. another girl who wants to hate on me....

GT40FIED · 10-22-2004, 09:14 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Mycivicjust8u
Lookie lookie.. another girl who wants to hate on me....

...or maybe she just thought it was funny.

mavaaoife · 10-22-2004, 09:15 PM

Nah steve.. lyna doesnt like me.... She makes it very clear

IALuder · 10-22-2004, 11:11 PM

lol, why she hate you? becuase you get all the attention?

mavaaoife · 10-22-2004, 11:15 PM

Ask her.... she'll tell you...

MissJDM · 10-22-2004, 11:25 PM

I don't like you? That's odd, Karen, why was I not aware of my own thoughts and feelings? lol. I simply said it was too funny at the mere implication that you're "shy" seeing how you definately aren't that type of gal. Come on Karen, I'm not hatin, if I was hatin on you, I'd rip on you and I think you and I have both been in the SR long enough to know how that goes.

It's normal to want the attention, most girls love it. Just admit it and go on with life. lol

By the way, I'm not jealous.

mavaaoife · 10-22-2004, 11:30 PM

I never thought you were jelous.. but thats odd... I was told by alot of poeple in SR you didn't like me... heh.. guess someone was misinformed... Im not saying im shy.. by all means im not.. but im also not the kind of girl to walk in the middle of the room and be like "LOOK AT ME LOOK AT ME". As I said before..all girls like attention.. im no exception to that..

MissJDM · 10-22-2004, 11:40 PM

Lol, Karen, look at who's in SR these days

. Enough said. Sure I've probably put a "lol" when someone says shit about you, but it's not like it's a biggie, ya know? My reputation in there is a smartass mix between alex/josh yet female..and quite frankly, i like it like that. I'm not in the chat to make eFriends on a daily basis.

To get the point straight, I don't NOT like you, and I can't say i LIKE you. If anything, I like you more than i DON'T like you. I just happen to conclude that you're one of those attention girls..it's just always been your SR rep. [shrugs]

MissJDM · 10-22-2004, 11:41 PM

Actually, I think it was funny when you had a post about you talking about cars so much and people not understanding you.

Now. THAT, was funny.

No harm.

mavaaoife · 10-22-2004, 11:47 PM

Eh.. Aol is Aol... and thats that. I am a bullshitter on the computer... not in real life.. but then again this is a forum on the computer and you are only known as the kind of person you put your self out as. No offense but I'm not one of the kind of people who are online to make friends... I have enough of those in person. Yeah here and there I pick up a few people I continously talk to, like Dave and Mike.. I've known them for 3 years... yet I've never met them and they are not truly apart of my everyday life. Now back to the topic of this thread.. Dude just go for it... She either takes it or not.. you've got a 50/50 chance and its either yes or no... so go for it...

IALuder · 10-23-2004, 12:55 PM

ahh kiss and makeup

mavaaoife · 10-23-2004, 09:01 PM

Shut up Ben

IALuder · 10-23-2004, 09:16 PM

sorry.

10-21-2004, 12:58 AM	#1
pdiggitydogg Yahoo Watashi wa kattaze! Join Date: May 2002 Location: Meanwhile, up in The D... Age: 41 Posts: 10,579	not that it Im changing my mind...but ...What do you think? Like I said in the title, Ive already decided what Im going to do, but I thought Id ask here, and make a new thread, for what few members actually post, to whore on. I am a firm believer in the phrase, "All is fair in love and war." Seems that the world works that way anyways, whether you want to buy into it or not. SO... This girl that Ive been pursuing casually mentions that her bf is her boss's son. Thats the first time in weeks that she's even mentioned a bf, and it wasnt even something like "my bf and I" or "I have a bf, so dont flirt w/ me". Now, at first this kinda made me stop the charm flow and almost ignore her. But, a few hours later, I decided "WTF? Im going to steal her!" And thats just what I plan on doing. Im going to continue what Im doing to win her over from the other guy. Some have told me, "No, you shouldnt do that..." and "That wouldnt be very nice..." and "Id kick your ass if you did that to me" and "Good luck to you...ass" etc. Before any of you say "What if it was you?"...Ive been there twice. Yeah, it wasnt great. But Id have to say, its no worse than any standard "Im sorry, but I think I just wanna be friends now." Nothing any of you say will change my mind. Things are finally starting to look decent for me, and Im not going to let some 'riced out integra w/ a fart can driving' bf get in my way. I'll steal his girl and then crush him w/ my jdm-ness! (That came out longer than I intended)

10-21-2004, 01:03 AM	#2
CD5Passion Registered User Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: Santa Barbara, California Age: 38 Posts: 5,446	well if she actually cares about him and is the kind of girl you can trust in a relationship she'll punch you in the face. hell my ex would've, when we were dating and a guy would make a move on her she'd just simply say "fuck you I have a boyfriend" simple as that now if I could easily steal a girl from another guy that she was happy with than I'd reconsider wanting to have anything more than a fling with her if she cheats on him for you, then she'll cheat on you for another . just one big circle of drama and pain __________________

10-21-2004, 01:19 AM	#4
RxGoaT13 4th Gear Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Modesto, CA Posts: 801	I would go for it but dont come on to strong let her decide who she wants to be with and make the first move.But i do agree with shards,if she cheats on him with you,whats stopping her from cheating on you with someone else. __________________ http://www.myspace.com/rxgoat13

10-21-2004, 01:22 AM	#5
mavaaoife Registered User Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: Atlanta, Ga. Age: 40 Posts: 1,486	all i can say is goodluck dude __________________ 1994 Supra TT Auto-THE WORLDS MOST CURSED SUPRA!!! www.atlsupras.com Http://www.myspace.com/tehren84

10-21-2004, 03:18 AM	#7
IALuder Registered User Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: Des Moines IA Age: 38 Posts: 7,908	do what have been doing. nothing more and nothing less. itll work out in time. __________________ 93 Si H23vtec......soon to be 12lbs 95 Civic EX....automatic DD if you cant dazzle them with your brillance, baffle them with your bullshit.

10-21-2004, 01:08 AM	#3
pdiggitydogg Yahoo Watashi wa kattaze! Join Date: May 2002 Location: Meanwhile, up in The D... Age: 41 Posts: 10,579	Oh shes never told me to buzz off of anything like that. In fact, it seems that she wants me to flirt with her. Im also not just looking for a fling.

10-21-2004, 02:23 AM	#6
pdiggitydogg Yahoo Watashi wa kattaze! Join Date: May 2002 Location: Meanwhile, up in The D... Age: 41 Posts: 10,579	dont get me wrong here if she says no, I'll have to stop and do as she asks

10-21-2004, 01:34 PM	#8
mavaaoife Registered User Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: Atlanta, Ga. Age: 40 Posts: 1,486	Dude if she didnt want it.. She woulda already told you to back off __________________ 1994 Supra TT Auto-THE WORLDS MOST CURSED SUPRA!!! www.atlsupras.com Http://www.myspace.com/tehren84

10-21-2004, 01:41 PM	#9
ebpda9 Repost Wagon Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: over here Age: 44 Posts: 17,266	i think it's time to go back to whacking it __________________

10-21-2004, 01:46 PM	#10
mavaaoife Registered User Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: Atlanta, Ga. Age: 40 Posts: 1,486	Eh dont listen to stefan.. She hasnt shot you down yet __________________ 1994 Supra TT Auto-THE WORLDS MOST CURSED SUPRA!!! www.atlsupras.com Http://www.myspace.com/tehren84

10-21-2004, 01:48 PM	#11
ebpda9 Repost Wagon Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: over here Age: 44 Posts: 17,266	neither did his hand __________________

10-21-2004, 01:53 PM	#12
pdiggitydogg Yahoo Watashi wa kattaze! Join Date: May 2002 Location: Meanwhile, up in The D... Age: 41 Posts: 10,579	and it never will! But how did those greenday lyrics go? "When masturbation's lost its fun..." something something

10-21-2004, 01:54 PM	#13
ebpda9 Repost Wagon Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: over here Age: 44 Posts: 17,266	try changing the hand lol __________________

10-21-2004, 01:55 PM	#14
mavaaoife Registered User Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: Atlanta, Ga. Age: 40 Posts: 1,486	Eh i dont know about you....but the hand has nothing to the real thing.... and im guessing in his case.. the hand cant compaire to ANY pussy... __________________ 1994 Supra TT Auto-THE WORLDS MOST CURSED SUPRA!!! www.atlsupras.com Http://www.myspace.com/tehren84

10-21-2004, 09:27 PM	#16
MissJDM Registered User Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: West Coast Age: 38 Posts: 2,244	Actually, at first, I thought I knew what I wanted to say..then as I was typing it, it all just sounded the same. [shrugs] __________________ you say it best when you say nothing at all

10-21-2004, 10:21 PM	#17
ChrisCantSkate Thought Police Join Date: Aug 2001 Location: orlando florida Age: 40 Posts: 9,662	i had a very similar thing happen to me not too long ago.. and i walked away. i didnt want the potential drama nd bullshit... i wish i had persued further though looking back on it __________________ Black Vtec Prelude-h22a power'd Many dreams come true, and some have silver linings. I live for my dreams and a pocket full of gold.

10-21-2004, 10:46 PM	#18
Kyle elyK Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: New Braunfels, TX Age: 38 Posts: 3,390	You never know whats gonna happen unless you try...so you might as weel just go for it. And if she does start talking about her BF more, that means that you need to back off. As long as you respect their relationship and it's already ended before you guys do anything...go for it __________________ IGNORE THE FACTS EXPLORE THE TRUTH

10-21-2004, 11:01 PM	#19
pdiggitydogg Yahoo Watashi wa kattaze! Join Date: May 2002 Location: Meanwhile, up in The D... Age: 41 Posts: 10,579	most definately I am a gentleman (sometimes anyway) and Id never let there be any overlap

10-22-2004, 05:41 AM	#20
IALuder Registered User Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: Des Moines IA Age: 38 Posts: 7,908	if anything goes wrong, i got yo back mang. __________________ 93 Si H23vtec......soon to be 12lbs 95 Civic EX....automatic DD if you cant dazzle them with your brillance, baffle them with your bullshit.

10-22-2004, 06:15 AM	#21
GT40FIED Best...mod...ever Join Date: Sep 2001 Location: At the end of the longest line Age: 43 Posts: 7,451	Man...Pat...it's simple. Of course she's not going to reject flirtation. Most girls love the attention regardless of whether or not they're "involved". The mere fact that she can attract other men is probably enough for her. My advice...tread lightly. Maybe she wants out with her current boyfriend, maybe not. Just remember that attention is probably the key here and it may not be you in particular that's she's interested in. Good luck man. __________________ 1984 1/2 Mustang GT350 #842, Faster than you...nuff said Anna Fan Club President/Dictator Someday, in the event that mankind actually figures out what it is that this world actually revoles around, thousands of people are going to be shocked and perplexed that it was not them. Sometimes this includes me. "If you want a vision of the future, imagine a boot stamping on a human face - forever." - George Orwell Welcome to the new Amerika

10-22-2004, 02:35 PM	#22
IALuder Registered User Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: Des Moines IA Age: 38 Posts: 7,908	^has a good point. wemon are always trying to center of attention. __________________ 93 Si H23vtec......soon to be 12lbs 95 Civic EX....automatic DD if you cant dazzle them with your brillance, baffle them with your bullshit.

10-22-2004, 03:14 PM	#23
mavaaoife Registered User Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: Atlanta, Ga. Age: 40 Posts: 1,486	Not all of us... i like to hide in the corner... __________________ 1994 Supra TT Auto-THE WORLDS MOST CURSED SUPRA!!! www.atlsupras.com Http://www.myspace.com/tehren84

10-22-2004, 05:52 PM	#24
GT40FIED Best...mod...ever Join Date: Sep 2001 Location: At the end of the longest line Age: 43 Posts: 7,451	Well I'm not really talking about social attention necessarily. Few people would put a stop to the sort of attention Pat is giving this girl. Women respond particularly well to that sort of attention. __________________ 1984 1/2 Mustang GT350 #842, Faster than you...nuff said Anna Fan Club President/Dictator Someday, in the event that mankind actually figures out what it is that this world actually revoles around, thousands of people are going to be shocked and perplexed that it was not them. Sometimes this includes me. "If you want a vision of the future, imagine a boot stamping on a human face - forever." - George Orwell Welcome to the new Amerika

10-22-2004, 07:45 PM	#25
mavaaoife Registered User Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: Atlanta, Ga. Age: 40 Posts: 1,486	I agree.. every girl loves to be flirted with an know that they are socially acceptable for someone else to like them, whether its looks or whatever... __________________ 1994 Supra TT Auto-THE WORLDS MOST CURSED SUPRA!!! www.atlsupras.com Http://www.myspace.com/tehren84

10-22-2004, 08:39 PM	#26
IALuder Registered User Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: Des Moines IA Age: 38 Posts: 7,908	^some like it just a little to much. that they go to far and cant get out. then thats were drama occurs. things get said and people get mad. __________________ 93 Si H23vtec......soon to be 12lbs 95 Civic EX....automatic DD if you cant dazzle them with your brillance, baffle them with your bullshit.

10-22-2004, 09:13 PM	#28
mavaaoife Registered User Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: Atlanta, Ga. Age: 40 Posts: 1,486	Lookie lookie.. another girl who wants to hate on me.... __________________ 1994 Supra TT Auto-THE WORLDS MOST CURSED SUPRA!!! www.atlsupras.com Http://www.myspace.com/tehren84

10-22-2004, 09:15 PM	#30
mavaaoife Registered User Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: Atlanta, Ga. Age: 40 Posts: 1,486	Nah steve.. lyna doesnt like me.... She makes it very clear __________________ 1994 Supra TT Auto-THE WORLDS MOST CURSED SUPRA!!! www.atlsupras.com Http://www.myspace.com/tehren84

10-22-2004, 11:11 PM	#31
IALuder Registered User Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: Des Moines IA Age: 38 Posts: 7,908	lol, why she hate you? becuase you get all the attention? __________________ 93 Si H23vtec......soon to be 12lbs 95 Civic EX....automatic DD if you cant dazzle them with your brillance, baffle them with your bullshit.

10-22-2004, 11:15 PM	#32
mavaaoife Registered User Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: Atlanta, Ga. Age: 40 Posts: 1,486	Ask her.... she'll tell you... __________________ 1994 Supra TT Auto-THE WORLDS MOST CURSED SUPRA!!! www.atlsupras.com Http://www.myspace.com/tehren84

10-22-2004, 11:25 PM	#33
MissJDM Registered User Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: West Coast Age: 38 Posts: 2,244	I don't like you? That's odd, Karen, why was I not aware of my own thoughts and feelings? lol. I simply said it was too funny at the mere implication that you're "shy" seeing how you definately aren't that type of gal. Come on Karen, I'm not hatin, if I was hatin on you, I'd rip on you and I think you and I have both been in the SR long enough to know how that goes. It's normal to want the attention, most girls love it. Just admit it and go on with life. lol By the way, I'm not jealous. __________________ you say it best when you say nothing at all

10-22-2004, 11:30 PM	#34
mavaaoife Registered User Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: Atlanta, Ga. Age: 40 Posts: 1,486	I never thought you were jelous.. but thats odd... I was told by alot of poeple in SR you didn't like me... heh.. guess someone was misinformed... Im not saying im shy.. by all means im not.. but im also not the kind of girl to walk in the middle of the room and be like "LOOK AT ME LOOK AT ME". As I said before..all girls like attention.. im no exception to that.. __________________ 1994 Supra TT Auto-THE WORLDS MOST CURSED SUPRA!!! www.atlsupras.com Http://www.myspace.com/tehren84

10-22-2004, 11:40 PM	#35
MissJDM Registered User Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: West Coast Age: 38 Posts: 2,244	Lol, Karen, look at who's in SR these days . Enough said. Sure I've probably put a "lol" when someone says shit about you, but it's not like it's a biggie, ya know? My reputation in there is a smartass mix between alex/josh yet female..and quite frankly, i like it like that. I'm not in the chat to make eFriends on a daily basis. To get the point straight, I don't NOT like you, and I can't say i LIKE you. If anything, I like you more than i DON'T like you. I just happen to conclude that you're one of those attention girls..it's just always been your SR rep. [shrugs] __________________ you say it best when you say nothing at all

10-22-2004, 11:41 PM	#36
MissJDM Registered User Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: West Coast Age: 38 Posts: 2,244	Actually, I think it was funny when you had a post about you talking about cars so much and people not understanding you. Now. THAT, was funny. No harm. __________________ you say it best when you say nothing at all

10-22-2004, 11:47 PM	#37
mavaaoife Registered User Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: Atlanta, Ga. Age: 40 Posts: 1,486	Eh.. Aol is Aol... and thats that. I am a bullshitter on the computer... not in real life.. but then again this is a forum on the computer and you are only known as the kind of person you put your self out as. No offense but I'm not one of the kind of people who are online to make friends... I have enough of those in person. Yeah here and there I pick up a few people I continously talk to, like Dave and Mike.. I've known them for 3 years... yet I've never met them and they are not truly apart of my everyday life. Now back to the topic of this thread.. Dude just go for it... She either takes it or not.. you've got a 50/50 chance and its either yes or no... so go for it... __________________ 1994 Supra TT Auto-THE WORLDS MOST CURSED SUPRA!!! www.atlsupras.com Http://www.myspace.com/tehren84

10-23-2004, 12:55 PM	#38
IALuder Registered User Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: Des Moines IA Age: 38 Posts: 7,908	ahh kiss and makeup __________________ 93 Si H23vtec......soon to be 12lbs 95 Civic EX....automatic DD if you cant dazzle them with your brillance, baffle them with your bullshit.