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JDMFantasy2k · 11-25-2004, 12:04 AM

Ok here's the scene,
about a week and a half ago one of my friends (shawna) who graduated from a neighboring school last year (she now goes to college in kentucky) IM's me out of the blue. Basically we started talking a lot and it started getting pretty hardcore. Then she tells me she's comming up for thanksgiving break.
So i called her a good ammount tonight trying to get ahold of her and finally at about 11, i catch up with her. Then she said she had to go with her friend ashely for a bit and i'm like ok so are we going to do something sometime tonight or what? (since i've wasted my whole night waiting for her) So then she says yah i'll call you and takes off. An hour and 5 phone calls later i can't get ahold of her and i just go home.

So now i don't know if she just blew me off or what but i'm getting frustrated because it's been a while since i've gotten any or been with someone....

so what should i do? just be mr nice guy tomorrow or be raging asshole?

*pdiggitydogg* · 11-25-2004, 12:31 AM

pfft
she blew you off man...simple as that.
If you cater to her youre only acting whipped...calling as much as you did only adds to it.
Id blow her off, right back. Then, later, if she asks whats up or why you did it, tell her off.

ebpda9 · 11-25-2004, 01:42 AM

ditch the bitch and call it a day. tell her you had plans with your wife anyway

CD5Passion · 11-25-2004, 02:20 AM

you got blown off dude, punch her in the boob and move on

find someone worth it..unless of course she has a legitimate reason or she gives you sex

IALuder · 11-25-2004, 07:28 AM

forget and move one. i would be an asshoke about tho. just let it go and move on.

JDMFantasy2k · 11-25-2004, 07:15 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Shardsofxapril
you got blown off dude, punch her in the boob and move on
find someone worth it..unless of course she has a legitimate reason or she gives you sex

well that was the original plan, she is umm premiscuious, so i was hoping it would be some fun but then she just up and ignores me so w/e. I'm just so sick of women lately, they're so dumb.

*pdiggitydogg* · 11-25-2004, 07:33 PM

feh...shes probably got the clap anyway...at least crabs

ShEaNy · 11-25-2004, 08:29 PM

ya...she blew u off man...

i hate that lol

GT40FIED · 11-29-2004, 10:04 PM

Eh...unless she's got a damn good excuse, she blew you off. I'd say wait a couple of days then call her like nothing happened and see if she'll give you sex. Just remember...chlamydia is not a flower.

MissJDM · 11-30-2004, 12:08 AM

lol @ punch her in the boobs.

man, that sucks that she did that, but really, i agree with most of them and think you should just blow her off. she may be irked without the attention..but just drop it like its not much. basically, act like it doesnt "phase" you. you don't sound like Rob, so, a guy like you doesnt deserve that. maybe Darin's available? jk.. joke..joke..

CD5Passion · 11-30-2004, 02:55 AM

god damnit can I get away from some gay joke or another haha

IALuder · 11-30-2004, 08:21 AM

12-05-2004, 09:50 AM

I would just not talk to her anymore...just like what pdig said...you'll only be catering to her and just digging yourself deeper into unnecessary drama...move on. So what if you haven't gotten laid in a while...just think of how good it will be once you DO get laid...something to think about....

JDMFantasy2k · 12-05-2004, 10:42 AM

well here's the update.

I saw her in the mall (since i work there) and she was with her ex (who i'm decent friends with) and we started small talk and i asked her why she blew me off, and she gave me some bullshit excuse. And then i was like well lets do something tonight and she's like fine.....

once again, no phone calls, blown off.

So she goes home to kentucky and i try to IM her, and she doesn't give me the time of day and says shes busy. Seriously wtf did i do? I hate it when that happens, i try to be a nice guy and then i get shit on.

MissJDM · 12-05-2004, 03:17 PM

I think it's quite obvious now that she's a flake, a no good. Next time she tries to talk to you, blow her off. Why give someone that much attention if they don't even have the curtesy to give you a heads up call? Seriously, I say just drop her, it's not worth it, who the hell does she think she is?

11-25-2004, 12:04 AM	#1
JDMFantasy2k Registered User Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: northeastern connecticut Age: 37 Posts: 1,765	ideas? Ok here's the scene, about a week and a half ago one of my friends (shawna) who graduated from a neighboring school last year (she now goes to college in kentucky) IM's me out of the blue. Basically we started talking a lot and it started getting pretty hardcore. Then she tells me she's comming up for thanksgiving break. So i called her a good ammount tonight trying to get ahold of her and finally at about 11, i catch up with her. Then she said she had to go with her friend ashely for a bit and i'm like ok so are we going to do something sometime tonight or what? (since i've wasted my whole night waiting for her) So then she says yah i'll call you and takes off. An hour and 5 phone calls later i can't get ahold of her and i just go home. So now i don't know if she just blew me off or what but i'm getting frustrated because it's been a while since i've gotten any or been with someone.... so what should i do? just be mr nice guy tomorrow or be raging asshole? __________________

11-25-2004, 01:42 AM	#3
ebpda9 Repost Wagon Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: over here Age: 44 Posts: 17,266	ditch the bitch and call it a day. tell her you had plans with your wife anyway __________________

11-25-2004, 02:20 AM	#4
CD5Passion Registered User Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: Santa Barbara, California Age: 38 Posts: 5,446	you got blown off dude, punch her in the boob and move on find someone worth it..unless of course she has a legitimate reason or she gives you sex __________________

11-25-2004, 07:28 AM	#5
IALuder Registered User Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: Des Moines IA Age: 38 Posts: 7,908	forget and move one. i would be an asshoke about tho. just let it go and move on. __________________ 93 Si H23vtec......soon to be 12lbs 95 Civic EX....automatic DD if you cant dazzle them with your brillance, baffle them with your bullshit.

11-29-2004, 10:04 PM	#9
GT40FIED Best...mod...ever Join Date: Sep 2001 Location: At the end of the longest line Age: 43 Posts: 7,451	Eh...unless she's got a damn good excuse, she blew you off. I'd say wait a couple of days then call her like nothing happened and see if she'll give you sex. Just remember...chlamydia is not a flower. __________________ 1984 1/2 Mustang GT350 #842, Faster than you...nuff said Anna Fan Club President/Dictator Someday, in the event that mankind actually figures out what it is that this world actually revoles around, thousands of people are going to be shocked and perplexed that it was not them. Sometimes this includes me. "If you want a vision of the future, imagine a boot stamping on a human face - forever." - George Orwell Welcome to the new Amerika

11-25-2004, 12:31 AM	#2
pdiggitydogg Yahoo Watashi wa kattaze! Join Date: May 2002 Location: Meanwhile, up in The D... Age: 41 Posts: 10,579	pfft she blew you off man...simple as that. If you cater to her youre only acting whipped...calling as much as you did only adds to it. Id blow her off, right back. Then, later, if she asks whats up or why you did it, tell her off.

11-25-2004, 07:33 PM	#7
pdiggitydogg Yahoo Watashi wa kattaze! Join Date: May 2002 Location: Meanwhile, up in The D... Age: 41 Posts: 10,579	feh...shes probably got the clap anyway...at least crabs

11-25-2004, 08:29 PM	#8
ShEaNy Registered User Join Date: Apr 2002 Location: Winnipeg, MB Age: 40 Posts: 3,821	ya...she blew u off man... i hate that lol

11-30-2004, 12:08 AM	#10
MissJDM Registered User Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: West Coast Age: 38 Posts: 2,244	lol @ punch her in the boobs. man, that sucks that she did that, but really, i agree with most of them and think you should just blow her off. she may be irked without the attention..but just drop it like its not much. basically, act like it doesnt "phase" you. you don't sound like Rob, so, a guy like you doesnt deserve that. maybe Darin's available? jk.. joke..joke.. __________________ you say it best when you say nothing at all

11-30-2004, 02:55 AM	#11
CD5Passion Registered User Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: Santa Barbara, California Age: 38 Posts: 5,446	god damnit can I get away from some gay joke or another haha __________________

11-30-2004, 08:21 AM	#12
IALuder Registered User Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: Des Moines IA Age: 38 Posts: 7,908	no __________________ 93 Si H23vtec......soon to be 12lbs 95 Civic EX....automatic DD if you cant dazzle them with your brillance, baffle them with your bullshit.

12-05-2004, 09:50 AM	#13
Kool-Aid Posts: n/a	I would just not talk to her anymore...just like what pdig said...you'll only be catering to her and just digging yourself deeper into unnecessary drama...move on. So what if you haven't gotten laid in a while...just think of how good it will be once you DO get laid...something to think about....

12-05-2004, 10:42 AM	#14
JDMFantasy2k Registered User Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: northeastern connecticut Age: 37 Posts: 1,765	well here's the update. I saw her in the mall (since i work there) and she was with her ex (who i'm decent friends with) and we started small talk and i asked her why she blew me off, and she gave me some bullshit excuse. And then i was like well lets do something tonight and she's like fine..... once again, no phone calls, blown off. So she goes home to kentucky and i try to IM her, and she doesn't give me the time of day and says shes busy. Seriously wtf did i do? I hate it when that happens, i try to be a nice guy and then i get shit on. __________________

12-05-2004, 03:17 PM	#15
MissJDM Registered User Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: West Coast Age: 38 Posts: 2,244	I think it's quite obvious now that she's a flake, a no good. Next time she tries to talk to you, blow her off. Why give someone that much attention if they don't even have the curtesy to give you a heads up call? Seriously, I say just drop her, it's not worth it, who the hell does she think she is? __________________ you say it best when you say nothing at all

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