What do you believe?

Today at work we got onto the topic if more sexual experience is better than being a virgin until marriage. Now mostly the girls and 1 brave guy (under 25 and not in serious relationships) said that they wanted to remain virgins until they found the person they were going to marry OR they regretted losing their virginity already. Yet most of the guys (in their late 20's to early 40's who are married) said they think it is better for both a guy AND a girl to have different sexual experiences before getting married. Sort of a way to let you know what kinda person you are marrying. I personally don't know which way I go with this and I am just curious to see what other people around my age believe.