Big Huge Giant masturbation thread (or Ben loves socks)

[Wren57]

Im kinda suprised at you that you test guys by if they pay or not... interesting. I paid for EVERYTHING with my ex for the first like 6mo-year, then it just became so expensive we started splitting things. It was also because we had moved out of the "we are dating so he pays" thing to "we act like we are married" thing... if that makes any sense. Anyway, off the subject of the ex, now I always pay for the first month or so worth of dates, but after that if SHE never offers to pay for anything, that is a sign to me as well. Not really a test, just something interesting to observe. I like a girl to offer to pay for things, it shows independence, just do NOT be taken aback if he accepts your offer, because then I ask you this; how genuine was your offer in the first place if you were hoping he wouldn't accept?