Ok gentlemen

[DsBlu01CivEX]

I need an explaination....or something. Thought that maybe you boys would be able to help me out.


The guy that I have been hanging out with got out of a 3 or so yr relationship about 7 months ago. We're not serious and we both still consider ourselves single, but we talk everyday and we see each other at least 3 times a week. Sometimes more....just depends. Well he called me this morning on his way to work, so that he wouldn't fall asleep while driving and he informs me about this "list" he has. He decided that when he and his ex broke up, that while he was single, he was going to produce this list of types of girls that he wanted to "bang"...and separately there are about 10 or so girls that he would be banging. (I hate using that word....but that's what he used, so that's what i'm using). Now granted that some of the girls could fall into more than 1 group.

Now I have never heard of such a thing, and I hang out with mostly guys, and I just figured that something like this would come up in some of the conversations I've had with them...but it hasn't. Is this normal? I don't know why, but it bothers me.....I guess maybe because he and I have been "together" and I guess now that I know that he's potentially hookin up with other girls.....yah you know where I'm going with this.

Can anyone explain the whole wanting to be with different types of girls thing to me???