what would you have done?

from personal experience... when people try to step in and do things, the guy that's doin the abusing just feels more insecure. what do insecure abusive men do? hit n yell more.

so unless someone obviously needs help... i say don't mess with em'. you think you're doing them a favor, but you're only making it worse until the person wants to get out of that relationship. i think you did the right thing here, it probably made her feel better that you didn't just walk off + be like oh well.

when you try + help in situations like this chances are the woman isn't gonna be like gee thanks, i really needed some help! she will most likely ask you to stop yelling or whatever at her bf/husband, and that she can't press charges blah blah.

i think all that made sense. damn i need some sleep!