What girls look for

Originally posted by MoneyToSpend
if girl wants a guy with a good personality, intellectual, blah, blah....then why, do girls go for the bad boys? a lot of the girls i know, said if they werent with their boyfriends, they'd be going out with me (i think they are just being nice)....their bf are complete dicks, treat them like sh!t, and all the other things that are associated with being a cock, why do the girls put up with it? i mean if you girls are truly looking for the nice guy(not saying most of you are), why go out with a guy that treats you like crap?

Dude i'm not a chick but i often have good insight into these types of issues.

These girls that only date bad boys are doing so because the excitment keeps them on their toes not to mention if they dont feel wanted it plays to their "want what i can't have" complex (doesn't apply to all girls). They also aren't at a point in their life when they realize those types of relationships lead to nothing more then heart break, this is when they often start to smarten up.

I think that girl who would date you if she were single is a girl you should never date. I'm assuming your a nice guy and have good values when i say this but shes atracted to the purity in you. Its a good thing you have that but wait until you find a girl who will respect you for being a gentleman and will return your kind gestures. I draw this from being a nice guy myself and wondering why some girls are attracted to me in the first place.

I read an interesting article in the paper last night when i was doing some research for school and apparently "good, nice and somewhat old fashion" men are on the demand. So much so that this article found that by putting on a wedding ring (even on a single guy) there was a noticable increase in the number of girls that flurted with the two test males. After some interviews with the ladies that fell for this test the author discovered that women are now starting to look for men who are stable and they could raise a family with. Sadly some women are taking the easy way out and looking for "qualified men" (because another woman found HIM to be worthy) but aren't looking out there at the "single, old fashion, good" males. This might explain why devorce rates are on the rise.