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Just trying to get some versatile opinions..... I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year and a half. Things were great til he moved to my hometown, He put on some big macho front because he claimed people wouldnt like him if he didnt. He complains about everything, his job, where he stays (which is with my brother, and he never paid anything to stay there), And most of all we have been clashing on everything and arguing alot.I love him, but he wants to get married and I dont think he's ready and recently discovered im defintaly not ready. I just dont know how to tell him that I want to take a break or anything. Everytime i try he gets really offended and upset sometimes angry:o
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02-13-2005, 06:07 PM
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my bestfriend's last boyfriend would cry when she told him she needed a break. yeah he was a duechbag
but what you have to do if you really want a so called "break" you have to stand up and just say it. there's no way to set something like that lightly or candycoat it. just go and say "hey I need some time to myself"
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02-13-2005, 08:36 PM
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I agree
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02-13-2005, 09:43 PM
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02-14-2005, 12:33 AM
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Haha.
I agree with Darin about not sugar coating anything. One of my best friends has been in this situation for well over two years now; it's just a bunch of immature drama. I think you need him to come to the realization that now that he's physically there..things are a little clashful. Is that a word? Anyway, be honest and tell him that it's not "space" you need, it's just for him to enjoy things a little more. Tell him his new act is simply a lame disturbance and you'd appreciate it if ..yadda yadda yadda.
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or that I am a pimp, I have a best friend of both the male and female side, dickwad 
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Either that or his best friend is as gay as Darin. Darin -
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02-14-2005, 12:48 AM
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 it never endsanyways Anna just tell him Darin says to stop being alittle bitch
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haha! so THAT explains behaviors of men!
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02-15-2005, 06:58 AM
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anna.. give it to him straight.. point blank and period
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02-15-2005, 04:05 PM
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Thanks guys the other day we kinda broke it off, not saying its over forever. We're just friends right now... ya I know its valentines and everything:o
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02-15-2005, 04:27 PM
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The brighter note? Things all happen for a reason.
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Exactly And regardless of the day....I tell ya...if it's gotta be done..its gotta be done.
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