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Grip72 · 09-08-2006, 02:53 AM

why is it that every girl i end up liking already has an interest that they bring up?

i swear tha tevery new girl i end up meeting and liking ends up having someone they already like
fuck girls

pimpinprelude · 09-08-2006, 06:26 AM

because they dont like you..

j/k iam in the same boat..

*ChrisCantSkate* · 09-08-2006, 08:04 AM

they wana make you jelious and try... godda use some reverse psycoligy on em ... or tell em to fuck off

Wren57 · 09-08-2006, 02:27 PM

Wonder how many threads this is now where you say something like "there are no girls around here" or "all the girls here are taken" or "boohoo I cant get laid"... the problem is *probably in your game, not in your environment. My mindset is that i'm doing them a favor just by talking to them or hooking up... works like a charm.

Grip72 · 09-09-2006, 04:14 AM

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Originally Posted by Wren57

Wonder how many threads this is now where you say something like "there are no girls around here" or "all the girls here are taken" or "boohoo I cant get laid"... the problem is *probably in your game, not in your environment. My mindset is that i'm doing them a favor just by talking to them or hooking up... works like a charm.

ok first of all, it was true when I lived in that shitty little town in bc that there were no girls there, and i had clear reason to bitch

And now living in calgary, i've gone on several dates but i just haven't really found anyone that i could see myself dating, that's all.

And there have been a few girls I kind of liked, that didn't work out.

But the main reason of this thread was pretty unclear i guess. I was just really fuckin frustarated with some female friends of mine. They would tell me about hooking up with guys and stuff and they'd look to me for advice or support when i really couldn't care less

there is about 3 chick friends of mine who will routinely tell me about "oh i kissed so and so" or whatever and it was just really getting to me. Or when girls tell me "your friend is so hot" or "what's so and so's number"... I'm just getting sick of that

*ChrisCantSkate* · 09-08-2006, 03:43 PM

^ ive used that sucessfully before

Robert · 09-08-2006, 04:53 PM

Wren has a point. The problem is more likely you, not the girls.

Fix your problems and you'll probably have less troubles meeting girls who are interested in you. OR maybe develope a reason for a girl to even want to be interested in you. With a lame attitude no one is going to want to invest anytime into you.

Cheers.

CD5Passion · 09-09-2006, 03:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Robert

Wren has a point. The problem is more likely you, not the girls.

Fix your problems and you'll probably have less troubles meeting girls who are interested in you. OR maybe develope a reason for a girl to even want to be interested in you. With a lame attitude no one is going to want to invest anytime into you.

Cheers.

exactly
girls/women really really like confidence. if you are gonna sit around a whine they won't like you..i promise
with my current girlfriend, I stumbled upon her when I wasn't even looking for a relationship...I was perfectly content with being single and was enjoying...and then bam...i meet the greatest women ever

Mischief · 09-09-2006, 12:41 PM

Be straight up with them.. If they say they just want to be friends tell them "I already have enough friends, I don't need anymore" and stop talking to them.. I did that to my ex once

Robert · 09-09-2006, 01:33 PM

I was under the impression there was a high rate of single women in calgary.

Maybe raise the bar a little on the people you'll go out with.

Grip72 · 09-09-2006, 03:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Robert

I was under the impression there was a high rate of single women in calgary.

Maybe raise the bar a little on the people you'll go out with.

there is..reread what i just wrote

nonovurbizniz · 09-09-2006, 03:40 PM

Stop making friends with the girls you like. It's as simple as that... if they were genuinely your friends you wouldn't care if they thought your other friends were cute...

Obviously you're letting girls into your life in different roles then you want them to be in...

Stop talking to your current girl "Friends" and don't make any new ones... unless of course they're actually girls you're not interested in but like for their personalities... Then hook up with all their friends and ask them advise about it. lol.

HondaImpaler · 09-09-2006, 09:58 PM

I sorta have the same situation going on right now. Awesome chick in Calgary I know and would like to go out with but she always talks to me about these people that she wants and blah blah blah. It sucks.

Robert · 09-10-2006, 02:13 PM

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Originally Posted by HondaImpaler

I sorta have the same situation going on right now. Awesome chick in Calgary I know and would like to go out with but she always talks to me about these people that she wants and blah blah blah. It sucks.

Then stop talking to her... move on. She knowns whats going on with your relationship with her; it's about time you took a hint.

*KwikR6* · 09-17-2006, 03:27 PM

Either that Rob or she's doing it to make him jealous. Either way drop her if she's doing shit like that.

Quote:

Originally Posted by HondaImpaler

I sorta have the same situation going on right now. Awesome chick in Calgary I know and would like to go out with but she always talks to me about these people that she wants and blah blah blah. It sucks.

Dude..do'nt even think of chicks right now. Wait till you get out to edmonton and settle down a bit. That is my advice. Lots of good girls out there.

Grip72 · 09-17-2006, 04:23 PM

well the girl i liked brought up taht she likes some dude that's totally wrong for her

so i'm going to cut off the lines of communication and see what happens (i won't call her or initatie hanging out....if she's at the same place, i'll talk, but meh)

Wren57 · 09-17-2006, 06:10 PM

so... since you like her, why didnt you use that as an oppurtunity? Should've gone with something along the lines of "hes just an idiot and you know it... look who you are hanging out with now, i'm obviously much cooler than him..." and take it from there based on her response. Ignoring her is just going to make her think along the lines of "he doesnt want to hang out with me without sex, so forget him, he's being sketchy". Honesty is awesome with girls almost all the time... be up front with what you want and most of them really just want the same thing.

Mischief · 09-17-2006, 06:16 PM

it sounds to me like you're not trying to play yourself up.. don't just be an ear for her to cry to

Robert · 09-17-2006, 09:37 PM

Grip72, run for the hills.

Avoid women at all cost who complain to you about pervious relationships, dont return your calls, stand you up or otherwise bother you. Life i far to short to put up with an b!tch to get some ass.

There are so many women how there, more then man actually. So throw some back for others to play with on your travels to find the right girl.

GT40FIED · 09-17-2006, 10:02 PM

Sounds a lot like your main problem is becoming friends with chicks you wanna nail. The first rule of dating is that 99.99997432% of chicks will NOT date their friends. I've never really understood this because of the simple fact that, if you're friends, you know you'll get along...but it's a fact so just go with it. Becoming friends with a girl you want to get with is just asking for some mental terrorism.

Grip72 · 09-17-2006, 10:45 PM

yeah i agree that i should'nt really become friends with girls that i want to date or "nail" lol

but how are you supposed to see if you like a girl or would get along with agirl without being a little bit of friends first? haha

i'm gonna change my ways completely and see what happens

Mischief · 09-17-2006, 11:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Grip72

yeah i agree that i should'nt really become friends with girls that i want to date or "nail" lol

but how are you supposed to see if you like a girl or would get along with agirl without being a little bit of friends first? haha

i'm gonna change my ways completely and see what happens

when you hang out suggest to do things couples would do, and do them with just you guys don't go out with other people to do things

Robert · 09-18-2006, 08:19 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mischief

when you hang out suggest to do things couples would do, and do them with just you guys don't go out with other people to do things

Yes, and if she tries to invite a friend bail on the plans. It doesnt go well when other people come out.

Further more, try 'asking her out' instead of just hanging out. If she's not interested in a date with you, then she'll say 'no' and you can move on.

*KwikR6* · 09-18-2006, 02:14 PM

Just ask them to make out.

Racing Rice · 09-18-2006, 03:48 PM

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Originally Posted by KwikR6

Just ask them to make out.

You know we can't go a whole thread about getting women without "it"... Thats right, you know what "it" is!

09-08-2006, 02:53 AM	#1
Grip72 Registered User Join Date: Apr 2002 Location: Calgary, AB Canada Age: 40 Posts: 2,962	chicks are for fags why is it that every girl i end up liking already has an interest that they bring up? i swear tha tevery new girl i end up meeting and liking ends up having someone they already like fuck girls

09-08-2006, 08:04 AM	#3
ChrisCantSkate Thought Police Join Date: Aug 2001 Location: orlando florida Age: 40 Posts: 9,662	they wana make you jelious and try... godda use some reverse psycoligy on em ... or tell em to fuck off __________________ Black Vtec Prelude-h22a power'd Many dreams come true, and some have silver linings. I live for my dreams and a pocket full of gold.

09-08-2006, 02:27 PM	#4
Wren57 Registered User Join Date: Feb 2002 Age: 39 Posts: 2,856	Wonder how many threads this is now where you say something like "there are no girls around here" or "all the girls here are taken" or "boohoo I cant get laid"... the problem is *probably in your game, not in your environment. My mindset is that i'm doing them a favor just by talking to them or hooking up... works like a charm. __________________ yeah, its that big

09-08-2006, 03:43 PM	#6
ChrisCantSkate Thought Police Join Date: Aug 2001 Location: orlando florida Age: 40 Posts: 9,662	^ ive used that sucessfully before __________________ Black Vtec Prelude-h22a power'd Many dreams come true, and some have silver linings. I live for my dreams and a pocket full of gold.

09-09-2006, 03:40 PM	#12
nonovurbizniz Registered User Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: ECUSA Age: 47 Posts: 2,693	Stop making friends with the girls you like. It's as simple as that... if they were genuinely your friends you wouldn't care if they thought your other friends were cute... Obviously you're letting girls into your life in different roles then you want them to be in... Stop talking to your current girl "Friends" and don't make any new ones... unless of course they're actually girls you're not interested in but like for their personalities... Then hook up with all their friends and ask them advise about it. lol. __________________ I am an A$$hole... take anything I say to heart at YOUR OWN RISK...

09-08-2006, 06:26 AM	#2
pimpinprelude Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Atlanta Age: 37 Posts: 1,325	because they dont like you.. j/k iam in the same boat..

09-08-2006, 04:53 PM	#7
Robert R-Tard Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 612	Wren has a point. The problem is more likely you, not the girls. Fix your problems and you'll probably have less troubles meeting girls who are interested in you. OR maybe develope a reason for a girl to even want to be interested in you. With a lame attitude no one is going to want to invest anytime into you. Cheers.

09-09-2006, 01:33 PM	#10
Robert R-Tard Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 612	I was under the impression there was a high rate of single women in calgary. Maybe raise the bar a little on the people you'll go out with.

09-09-2006, 09:58 PM	#13
HondaImpaler Registered User Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 235	I sorta have the same situation going on right now. Awesome chick in Calgary I know and would like to go out with but she always talks to me about these people that she wants and blah blah blah. It sucks. __________________ Gestating with all the other rats Nurse said that my skin will need a graft I am of pock-marked shapes The vermin you need to loathe

09-17-2006, 04:23 PM	#16
Grip72 Registered User Join Date: Apr 2002 Location: Calgary, AB Canada Age: 40 Posts: 2,962	well the girl i liked brought up taht she likes some dude that's totally wrong for her so i'm going to cut off the lines of communication and see what happens (i won't call her or initatie hanging out....if she's at the same place, i'll talk, but meh)

09-17-2006, 06:10 PM	#17
Wren57 Registered User Join Date: Feb 2002 Age: 39 Posts: 2,856	so... since you like her, why didnt you use that as an oppurtunity? Should've gone with something along the lines of "hes just an idiot and you know it... look who you are hanging out with now, i'm obviously much cooler than him..." and take it from there based on her response. Ignoring her is just going to make her think along the lines of "he doesnt want to hang out with me without sex, so forget him, he's being sketchy". Honesty is awesome with girls almost all the time... be up front with what you want and most of them really just want the same thing. __________________ yeah, its that big

09-17-2006, 09:37 PM	#19
Robert R-Tard Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 612	Grip72, run for the hills. Avoid women at all cost who complain to you about pervious relationships, dont return your calls, stand you up or otherwise bother you. Life i far to short to put up with an b!tch to get some ass. There are so many women how there, more then man actually. So throw some back for others to play with on your travels to find the right girl. Last edited by Robert : 09-17-2006 at 09:40 PM.

09-17-2006, 10:02 PM	#20
GT40FIED Best...mod...ever Join Date: Sep 2001 Location: At the end of the longest line Age: 43 Posts: 7,451	Sounds a lot like your main problem is becoming friends with chicks you wanna nail. The first rule of dating is that 99.99997432% of chicks will NOT date their friends. I've never really understood this because of the simple fact that, if you're friends, you know you'll get along...but it's a fact so just go with it. Becoming friends with a girl you want to get with is just asking for some mental terrorism. __________________ 1984 1/2 Mustang GT350 #842, Faster than you...nuff said Anna Fan Club President/Dictator Someday, in the event that mankind actually figures out what it is that this world actually revoles around, thousands of people are going to be shocked and perplexed that it was not them. Sometimes this includes me. "If you want a vision of the future, imagine a boot stamping on a human face - forever." - George Orwell Welcome to the new Amerika

09-17-2006, 10:45 PM	#21
Grip72 Registered User Join Date: Apr 2002 Location: Calgary, AB Canada Age: 40 Posts: 2,962	yeah i agree that i should'nt really become friends with girls that i want to date or "nail" lol but how are you supposed to see if you like a girl or would get along with agirl without being a little bit of friends first? haha i'm gonna change my ways completely and see what happens

09-18-2006, 02:14 PM	#24
KwikR6 Mind Blowing Join Date: Oct 2001 Location: Cloud 69 Age: 44 Posts: 8,871	Just ask them to make out. __________________ I JDM. I My Honda The epitome of stupidity is expressed so fluidly with the shity lyric theory you try to spit at me. I CAN'T WAIT FOR SUMMER!!!

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