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ebpda9 · 12-04-2001, 11:26 PM

i know some of you will get bored with this, but please read to the end and give me some advice.

4 yrs ago when i came to us i met some nice guys from my city (back in Romania) and they became my friends. Even thou they were married and a 5 and 7 years difference between us was no problem. so my frien she has 2 systers (she), and after one year i go back to romania for my summer vacation. My friens ask me to carry a small package for them for their sisters. Np at all. Once i get there, and i meet the youungest of them i really fell for her. She is not a hottie that will blow your sicks off or something like that but she was cute and very caring. So she becomes my gf for 3 mos while i was there. Came back here after the vacation, and keep on writing her emails everyday, and once of a sudden she stops writung me. Needles to say i was so pissed off. Then my friends move to Milwaukee, Wisconsin (last year). Meanwhile her dad comes to Cleveland and decides to stay here. Because i am a nice guy, i help him out every way i can ( i know how it is to come here, and have no support). Her dad really likes me

. This Thanksgiving i go visit my friends to Milwaukee, and my friend starts talking about her sister, like she is single, i told her you look so hot (yeah, right. me being hot is like gramma boxing

), and all kinds of stuff like that. One day she calls her sisters and makes me talk to one the youngest one. I dunno she was so happy to hear me, then 3 days later after comming to cleveland i find a very strange message from her, like she wants to know me better, why don't i write her, and signs the letter "with love". Help me understand this ? i mean she does not write or contact me for 2 years and all of a sudden this interest.

Racing Rice · 12-05-2001, 08:56 AM

Ok.. Im not a girl, but Ill try to help.

you never know. maybe she lost you address or something, its possible. I do know that its hard to keep in contact with people through mail. I know Ive done it many times. Plus the older you get the more responsibilities you have which mean less time you have to do other stuff. Personally I know how you feel about this girl, its a great idea to try to be friends with her cause you never know what may happen in the future. But I wouldnt dwell on it to much. Long distance relationships are hard to maintain (Whether your friends or whatever.) Try to keep in touch with her if you can, but if she stops writing again, you just have to understand that its something that happens sooner or later usually. I wish you the best of luck. But I would have to say if it happens, just go on with your life and live it to the fullest, whats meant to be will be.

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12-06-2001, 09:32 PM

I agree with racing rice, you never know what happened, maybe ask her why she didnt write, if you want anything to good to happen you got to be able to forgive
hope this helps a little

ebpda9 · 12-06-2001, 09:34 PM

no i was trying to understand why she would write me now with this. I really never understood "the other half"

12-11-2001, 02:01 AM

Bro does it really matter? What is important is that she wants to hook up. This is what you wanted and now you got it. Move on get over it. Take it or leave it. Don't try to understand why things happen, they just do.

Accord Man · 12-11-2001, 10:56 AM

IMO that she had a good reason or not to stop writing to you doesnt really matter.

If you guys had something special, she could have at least let you know what was going on, without leaving you hanging..

If I were you, I'd ask her why she stopped writing, and if its some major reason, then I guess you could forgive her.. But otherwise, it sounds like trouble all over again.

ebpda9 · 12-11-2001, 12:22 PM

thanks "ladies"

is it just me or only guys replied to this ?

Accord Man · 12-11-2001, 01:42 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by hondaman-iac
thanks "ladies"

is it just me or only guys replied to this ?

LOL

I think only guys..

I guess the girls are too busy.. Or have better things to do!

slowEJ6 · 12-11-2001, 02:46 PM

shit happens because well......thats life, life is puzzling a lot of the time, just gotta roll with the punches and then come back kickin a$$ when its your turn.

im tired

12-04-2001, 11:26 PM	#1
ebpda9 Repost Wagon Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: over here Age: 44 Posts: 17,266	Hey ladies i need ur help... (long) i know some of you will get bored with this, but please read to the end and give me some advice. 4 yrs ago when i came to us i met some nice guys from my city (back in Romania) and they became my friends. Even thou they were married and a 5 and 7 years difference between us was no problem. so my frien she has 2 systers (she), and after one year i go back to romania for my summer vacation. My friens ask me to carry a small package for them for their sisters. Np at all. Once i get there, and i meet the youungest of them i really fell for her. She is not a hottie that will blow your sicks off or something like that but she was cute and very caring. So she becomes my gf for 3 mos while i was there. Came back here after the vacation, and keep on writing her emails everyday, and once of a sudden she stops writung me. Needles to say i was so pissed off. Then my friends move to Milwaukee, Wisconsin (last year). Meanwhile her dad comes to Cleveland and decides to stay here. Because i am a nice guy, i help him out every way i can ( i know how it is to come here, and have no support). Her dad really likes me . This Thanksgiving i go visit my friends to Milwaukee, and my friend starts talking about her sister, like she is single, i told her you look so hot (yeah, right. me being hot is like gramma boxing ), and all kinds of stuff like that. One day she calls her sisters and makes me talk to one the youngest one. I dunno she was so happy to hear me, then 3 days later after comming to cleveland i find a very strange message from her, like she wants to know me better, why don't i write her, and signs the letter "with love". Help me understand this ? i mean she does not write or contact me for 2 years and all of a sudden this interest. __________________

12-05-2001, 08:56 AM	#2
Racing Rice Project Combat Honda Join Date: Sep 2001 Location: Highland,OH Age: 45 Posts: 7,985	Ok.. Im not a girl, but Ill try to help. you never know. maybe she lost you address or something, its possible. I do know that its hard to keep in contact with people through mail. I know Ive done it many times. Plus the older you get the more responsibilities you have which mean less time you have to do other stuff. Personally I know how you feel about this girl, its a great idea to try to be friends with her cause you never know what may happen in the future. But I wouldnt dwell on it to much. Long distance relationships are hard to maintain (Whether your friends or whatever.) Try to keep in touch with her if you can, but if she stops writing again, you just have to understand that its something that happens sooner or later usually. I wish you the best of luck. But I would have to say if it happens, just go on with your life and live it to the fullest, whats meant to be will be. :: __________________ Racing Rice

12-06-2001, 09:34 PM	#4
ebpda9 Repost Wagon Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: over here Age: 44 Posts: 17,266	no i was trying to understand why she would write me now with this. I really never understood "the other half" __________________

12-11-2001, 10:56 AM	#6
Accord Man THE GENERAL Join Date: Aug 2001 Location: Earth (usually) Age: 42 Posts: 5,698	IMO that she had a good reason or not to stop writing to you doesnt really matter. If you guys had something special, she could have at least let you know what was going on, without leaving you hanging.. If I were you, I'd ask her why she stopped writing, and if its some major reason, then I guess you could forgive her.. But otherwise, it sounds like trouble all over again. __________________ HondaStyle.com Babysitter's Club Member #0 Soon to be >Dr Max Immuh<

12-11-2001, 12:22 PM	#7
ebpda9 Repost Wagon Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: over here Age: 44 Posts: 17,266	thanks "ladies" is it just me or only guys replied to this ? __________________

12-06-2001, 09:32 PM	#3
90civiclxryder Posts: n/a	I agree with racing rice, you never know what happened, maybe ask her why she didnt write, if you want anything to good to happen you got to be able to forgive hope this helps a little

12-11-2001, 02:01 AM	#5
2000_Honda_Si Posts: n/a	Bro does it really matter? What is important is that she wants to hook up. This is what you wanted and now you got it. Move on get over it. Take it or leave it. Don't try to understand why things happen, they just do.

12-11-2001, 02:46 PM	#9
slowEJ6 Registered User Join Date: Nov 2001 Location: Oviedo, FL Age: 42 Posts: 3,195	shit happens because well......thats life, life is puzzling a lot of the time, just gotta roll with the punches and then come back kickin a$$ when its your turn. im tired

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