Does Size Matter?

So we have cut or uncut, trimmed or shaved, and loud or quiet. Why not this one? Ladies (or guys) does size matter?

[BlackWolf]

Undeniably, unequivically, absolutley, YES! I'm not talking about a third leg you need to have special pants made for but definatly not something you need a magnifying glass to find. Larger than average but with good rythm too would be my ultimate size for a guy.

[ohiochica]

lol, i just got into this debate last night with a friend. size does matter, but not in the way most guys think it would. i am a small girl tobegin with, a very large guy is definately not my best fit. i prefer a guy to be smaller, to me it feels better and fits alot better. i think what you are going to find out is, is that size only matters in comparison to teh females size.

[nonovurbizniz]

I'm a little above average and I've found that just about no girl I've met is "deep" enough.. you can always give the cervix a stab by accident...

I dated this one girl for a while who had never so much as used a tampon... I couldn't even get it in her. but she was REALLY tight.

felt like putting your finger (just 1) into a lubed up vice.

[nonovurbizniz]

however I have met plenty of girls who'll dive at a big buldge in the pants like it was free money.

some chicks just dig the enormo-cock

most just want an average man who can satisfy them.

I had the same problem nonovurbizniz, but I got lucky. I am about 5'10, and my girlfriend is about 6', so we fit together pretty well.

[BlackWolf]

My ex was 6'5" size 14 shoe. Enough said...

see, i think a lot of guys think it's the length that matters...this may be true when comparing like 2 inches to 8 or something...lol, but A LOT of it has to do with girth (sp?) or the thickness of it. if he is larger in this department, it feels much better whn rubbing against a certain area. going "deep" just means ur pretty much ****ing space past the clit...theres not as much feeling there. so guys who are "smaller" but thicker are better in my opinion versus guys who have 8 inch pencil dicks...hope this makes sense.

Yup, I've had problems with the REALLY big ones too.

I don't like them small, but they don't need to be donkey dicks.

[nonovurbizniz]

well the clit should'nt be considered during intercourse... I mean if the girl likes it to be added sure... but a true o from a girl comes from the inside not out... at least during "the act".

Supposedly only about 25% of women climax vaginally, and also supposedly only about 33% of the interior has nerve endings....

Girth usually is more important to the ladies than length, at least for the ladies I've talked with.

However in the end it's really just how much one pleases the other. Sticking a toothpick in a straw may not please the straw or the toothpick, equally trying to shove a salami through a straw may cause a little problem for the straw.....

I've known some girls who are far more pleased with a smaller guy and some who are far more pleased than with a bigger guy........part of it is more to do with what you do with it and how it's shaped......just depends on the 2 people.

b

Originally posted by nonovurbizniz
well the clit should'nt be considered during intercourse... I mean if the girl likes it to be added sure... but a true o from a girl comes from the inside not out... at least during "the act".

the clit shouldn't be considered during intercourse!?!?!? ahhh!!!!!! oh, let me educate you...or at least try to...lol. a TRUE orgasm from a girl and usually the best is one which originates from clitoral stimulation. vaginal orgasms do happen but they're definitely not as strong or as common as the ones coming from the clit. please god don;t think the clit has nothing to do with intercourse!!

and btw....donkey dicks....lmao!!!! that was great!

the clit should not be considered? Is this the twilight zone?

Anyways, I'm small too so I don't want a big one. Small or average is ok with me, heh. It's also just about how you use it.

lol @ the girl who never used a tampon, I kinda feel her pain. I still have to use those slim fit tampons and I always feel like I'm too tight. Oh well.

the g-spot is what you guys want to hit... the clit is childs play people... start working the g-spot and you're gonna make her more then cum... the nails, the biting, the moaning, the screaming and then there's the fluids... omg get a towel out there cause shes gonna make a mess... haha G-SPOT! For the g-spot you're gonna need depth, so ya size does matter dont be fooled by what these people say... you need size and width its kinda a complete package bro..

[nonovurbizniz]

that's funny you girls know less about does/will satisfy you than I do....

^^^ i find it funny that you know more about THEM than THEY do THEMSELVES

Originally posted by Shot 2 Hel
^^^ i find it funny that you know more about THEM than THEY do THEMSELVES

my guess is these girls haven't really had a 'great orgrasim'

a clit orgasim is very different from a g-spot, or so i've had gf's tell me... these answers seem rather tame if i can call them that.

[ohiochica]

the girls know less?????? umm hon i think we should know more, after all it is our body and we know what we like and what we dont like.

Originally posted by ohiochica
the girls know less?????? umm hon i think we should know more, after all it is our body and we know what we like and what we dont like.

tell me a g-spot orgasim isnt' as great as a clit one then... please tell me this so i can laugh at you never having had one...

[ohiochica]

excuse me????? rob you must get your facts straight before you try to run your mouth.

[nonovurbizniz]

As I origonally said... some girls like some stim there during the act... but if that's where you're getting off then you're not REALLY getting off...

sure multiple orgasms are possible via the clit... but they're not as intense long lasting or easy as through the g spot... especially during the act.

I have no problem delivering either... some guys do and MOST girls "know" themselves as well as the most experienced guy they've been with... girls are shut off to about everything till a guy convinces them to try it... (of course there are exceptions).

I've met girls who were 25 and had TONS of sex and never had a "real orgasm" they could self stimulate till the cows came home and had no problem with clitoral orgasm but never had the big O... for LOTS of girls it's WAY more emotional to let go enough to have one... so it takes trust and time... after that they are usually much easier to get off..

To whoever said that only 33% of women achieve via gspot... that's cuz no one has ever hit it. it's there...

How is that not 'really getting off'? Is there only 1 right way to get off? So if you cum when a girl is giving you a blowjob, is that "not really getting off" unless you cum when you are having sex?

And yes, just because you have a lot of sex doesn't mean you get off on it. A womans body is so much more complex than mens when it comes to sex and having an orgasm.

I love how guys act like they have vaginas just because their girlfriends tell them things. I've never pretended to have a penis, maybe you should just stick with your own anatomy. You say all of these things about how we don't know our own bodies and then say "well that's just what so and so told me", please! Don't insult us. Maikoshi is about to tell you something, listen up:

I've had the big "o" g-spot orgasm, it's kinda too much. I wouldn't wanna have one everyday if you know what I mean. If something has ever felt so good it almost drove you mad, that's what it is like for me. Orgasms via the clit are better for *me* on a more often basis than the g-spot thing.

[nonovurbizniz]

Originally posted by maikoshi
How is that not 'really getting off'? Is there only 1 right way to get off? So if you cum when a girl is giving you a blowjob, is that "not really getting off" unless you cum when you are having sex?

And yes, just because you have a lot of sex doesn't mean you get off on it. A womans body is so much more complex than mens when it comes to sex and having an orgasm.

I love how guys act like they have vaginas just because their girlfriends tell them things. I've never pretended to have a penis, maybe you should just stick with your own anatomy. You say all of these things about how we don't know our own bodies and then say "well that's just what so and so told me", please! Don't insult us. Maikoshi is about to tell you something, listen up:

I've had the big "o" g-spot orgasm, it's kinda too much. I wouldn't wanna have one everyday if you know what I mean. If something has ever felt so good it almost drove you mad, that's what it is like for me. Orgasms via the clit are better for *me* on a more often basis than the g-spot thing.

1. when a guy cums from oral it's the exact same process as when he orgasms from intercourse... so it's the same thing.

2. women's anatonomy is no more complicated than a good puzzle... sure for kids it's hard to get off or deal with it when they finally REALLY do.

3. I never said it had anything to do with what a gf told me... everygirl I've been with has reacted 1 way to the clit (of course the like it) and another to the big'en (I think your sumation makes it pretty clear which one is "better"

4. just because your a little young and in-experienced (which is why you can't handle the intesity of the superior orgasm) doesn't mean that when you grow up you won't FAR prefer the g-spot way more than the clit.

I'm not sitting telling anyone how THEY feel... I'm saying that an orgasm from oral is a clitoral one because THAT is the target... (ie what you're licking) and during INTERCOURSE the gspot is the target (ie what you're sticking).

I never said that all of you prefer one over the other I just made mention of the FACT that if you're having clitoral orgasms during intercourse you're not really having intercourse driven orgasms... your having clitorally based orgasm which... last time I checked can go totally un-molested during the act and still achieve a real orgasm..

Originally posted by ohiochica
excuse me????? rob you must get your facts straight before you try to run your mouth.

My facts straight, what facts might those be becky?

I'll qualify my answer that the g-spot is the best orgasim. I was with a girl who I was just every so slightly to large for so I had to hold back most of the time to stop from 'poking' her as she called it. Anyways one day we were really going at it and the fluids jsut started to flow, then there was the moaning that turned into so much more then that. She did the tremble, and made a little more mess then she was already making. When I finished up she just laid there and was speechless about the whole thing. It took her a good 20min to put together a sentance and when she got up her legs were wobbly. Later on she told me nothing like that has ever happen to her before. I realized then it was the g-spot and she was begging for me to 'hit it like that' again.... so becky in this case I think i might know something... f*ck ya very much!

seems like nonovurbizniz and I are on the same page... props bro!

Ok, let me put it to you like this: do you know where the male g-spot is? Did you know men can have multi orgasms (not ejaculating everytime)? Go stimulate your prostate.

Oh? You don't want to? Why not youngster?

And as for it being hard for 'kids' to get off, a lot of women have issues with getting off no matter what their age is. I'm not one of them *shrug* but tooons of women do. I think this is because of the whole shebang goin on - not just stickin it in and waitin for things to happen, there has to be more and no I'm not talkin' about the clit either haha. A lot of guys just don't get it.

lol @ the girl and her wobbly legs. Yeah, I'm like that everytime I have one.. I'm all shakey for like a good 20 minutes or so, prolly lookin like a total dumbass.

I can 'handle' it, it's just more of a chore and since I like to have an orgasm a day for stress relief and the like, the g-spot deal is just too much of a production. Ya get me? I think that makes sense.

Calm down people! Jeebus.. all rilled up.

Originally posted by maikoshi
Ok, let me put it to you like this: do you know where the male g-spot is? Did you know men can have multi orgasms (not ejaculating everytime)? Go stimulate your prostate.

I've done the multiple orgasim a few times, its hard to pull off. As for the prostate... never tried that and dunno if i will anytime soon. I have heard good things about it thouhg...

[nonovurbizniz]

I have NO problem with ass play...I'm straight and confident enough in my sexuality that I have NO problem with that at all... I mean if a porno has a scene with a dude getting his salad tossed I'm hitting fast forward asap... but I have No problem with something that's gunna make sex better... or more pleasurable.
And like Mt. biker multiples are more than possible w/o...

And if you got insulted about the young stuff.. I in no way meant to say it was an age only thing however ALL young people who haven't experienced something are unable to make full judgements...It's only those who never learn that grow up to be older inexperienced people...

Yes it is also by FAR the guys in the world that are the deficiency and the reason the female orgasm is still considered a myth or un-achievable by some... which is just not the case...

I knew plenty of girls over 25 that had never had one desite LOTS of sex... some dudes are just to selfish to take their time about things...

I also never meant to negate the female clit or it's benifits... If you prefer it great that's what your bf or whoever should be paying attention to... however this all started around my comment that for the conversation of INTERCOURSE it should not be considered... cuz it's not a vaginal orgasm. which I still think is the case... if you're doing it and get off like that then it's just not having a sex orgasm... you could probobly achieve on a rough enough riding motorcycle.... is that sex or an intercourse driven orgasm?... no.

that's all I'm saying..

i love it.....ha.....i come to threads for rob's response

I'm not offended by anything you have said, that's why I'm tellin everyone to quit rillin' yaself up.

You can still have an orgasm that's not from the g-spot when you don't stimulate your clit during sex, so is that considered 'not really having an orgasm'?

And some girls just don't know how to have an orgasm I don't think. Like some girls I have talked to are scared to have one. Wtf? So it's not always the guys fault if a girl can't have an orgasm no matter how much sex she's had and how long of a time he's taking.

I think something to remember here is that there's no "right" or "wrong" way to get off. I'm gonna get laid tonight and hopefully I'll have a g-spot orgasm. Are you proud? [hahaha]

[Racing Rice]

From what I know, a clitorial orgasm isnt as breath taking as a "G-Spot". Its more of a "light" (for the lack of a better word.) orgasm. G-Spot or vaginal orgasms tend to be more intense then a clitoris orgasm.

Maikoshi is right.. If a guy cant get his woman to peak, its not nessacarily something he is doing wrong. An orgasm is a mental thing, and it can be held back for one reason or another.

Keep in mind, it is possible to experiance an orgasm without ever touching at all.

ok, heres a little tid bit for ya...THE G-SPOT IS A MYTH!! i took 3 human sexuality classes for my major and it is scientifically proven that there is not an actual "spot" as in like a button or something...its just a certain area on each girl that really gets them off. its in different areas on different girls of course so it varies. but just wanted to let u know that there really isnt one special spot in the same place on every girl.

^^ i knew it was diffferent for every girl.... but its there and thats all that matters

Originally posted by zm_dawg
i love it.....ha.....i come to threads for rob's response

I wish Rob would be a lil more aware of other's feelings, but that's beside the point.

I think I'm gonna go with Becky. No one can say whether or not one orgasim is better than the other. Different strokes for different folks ok people?

Just like some people like tomatoes & some don't...one may not be better than the other to some people. It's a personal thing. K?

Originally posted by GirlRacer
I wish Rob would be a lil more aware of other's feelings

I'll make it very clear for you quin, i'm not here to make people feel all good about themselves for no reason. I'll give credit where credit is do. If you run your mouth about something you know nothing about i'll be the first to say it, if you say something I know otherwise is the real truth I'll say something. I speak my mind and well its gonna keep being like that. You're right it realy is besides the point on most things. This is a message board, I didnt' come her to make you or anyone else feel great about themselves. If you dont like my opions feel free not to read them, but you dont here my complaining about your comments.... so how about you stop complaining about mine. Cheers


As for the g-spot thingy, i was talking to a girl friend of mine just moments ago about this on the phone. She explained that she found where this 'area' was on her own with her 'toy' as she calls it. I dont know exactly how she went about finding said area but she now knows where it is and tells me when she finally gets around to having sex shes going to try and help guide her bf to that 'sweet spot' as she put it. So it must be there, no doubt about that.

Originally posted by nonovurbizniz
To whoever said that only 33% of women achieve via gspot... that's cuz no one has ever hit it. it's there...

That's not at all what I said, just go back and reread it....I don't recall seeing any other 33% statistics.

I did say only about 25% of women climax vaginally. Let it be known that women can climax vaginally without it being the "big O g-spot".....

A big hangup that some of my female friends have b*tched about is that too often guys don't even realize that girls may really enjoy it even if they don't cum, so just cuz you can't give her the big O doesn't mean she's not having a good time. But she may not be having a good time.

I like to have an orgasm a day for stress relief

If only I could find some girls like you..... Good philosophy!

On multiples, yeah guys can have multiples without prostate stimulation, but it can be pretty tough to achieve. There's a very fine line between orgasming without ejaculation and orgasming with.

b

i never said women didnt have a certain spot that really set them off. what i said was this whole big thing about all girls having one spot that drives them crazy wasn't true. like every human has a heart...its in the same place, it doesnt move. the "g-spot" is different. as a specific organ or part it doesnt exist. i have 3 different teachers all with medical degrees who have explained this to me. but different girls like different things and have certain things that drive them crazy...doesn't mean that there guy is hitting a certain spot or anything.

[nonovurbizniz]

all the girls just seem to be nit picking over b.s.... I never said you have to enjoy anything more than another... I never said it HAS to be in the same spot (neither has ANYONE who talks about it both here or in the real world).

you chicks just want to disagree...

and how has rob been insensitive at all... not that he should be but... I don't even see where he's being careless of others feelings...

somebody popped on with NO helpful words just a stab at his so he shot back and rightfully so.

i just turned 15 in november and im 6 feet 1 inches tall w/ a size 13(its kinda tight on me) shoe enough said

Originally posted by imports_only98
i never said women didnt have a certain spot that really set them off. what i said was this whole big thing about all girls having one spot that drives them crazy wasn't true. like every human has a heart...its in the same place, it doesnt move. the "g-spot" is different. as a specific organ or part it doesnt exist. i have 3 different teachers all with medical degrees who have explained this to me. but different girls like different things and have certain things that drive them crazy...doesn't mean that there guy is hitting a certain spot or anything.

Amy I shall be very blunt here for a moment so if any of you 'week gals' who think i'm overly harsh are reading this stop here....


There is a g-spot, it is the spot in a female that gives you an internal orgasim. Where it is in every female might be a little different, i'll give you that. As for hearts, no hearts move in a body as you grow. I believe they go from the center of your chest to the left side as you mature. So no you're wrong with that as well.

As for the ladies getting all worked up over this g-spot thing, the only thing I can think is that they are trying to rationalize why they've never had one. Or are to afriad to speak up with the man they are sleeping with now in order to have that spot 'hit'. Arguing this g-spot topic is like saying the sun wont rise tomorrow, we all know it will but at 'night' you might fool some people. Hey girls, if you haven't had one yet dont go telling others its not possible or the 'clit' one is the best.

Originally posted by nonovurbizniz
you chicks just want to disagree...

and how has rob been insensitive at all... not that he should be but... I don't even see where he's being careless of others feelings...

cheers buddy, you and me understand whats going on here. I think my sig says it all. Some of them are lacking a maturity level that is needed to talk about these kinds of things. And females complain about guys... ya ok then...

This is seriously getting ridiculous only for the fact that everyone is different. Different strokes for different folks? This will just go around in circles.

I think 'g-spot' should be taken very relatively. I think you can have a spot that drives you mad, what you call it doesn't matter. No there's not a damn organ or literal "spot" like with an X on it called the g-spot, please.

But this is gettin fuggin stupid