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Originally posted by Racing Rice
Ill throw my .02c in here just to do it.
Cars are hobbies your girlfriends/boyfriends aren't. Hopefully you have a girlfriend/boyfriends that understand this and dont care that you spend money on your car and they will support you on any dicission you make.
But at the same time you have to treat your companion with love and which also means honor, and obey. The key is to put yourself in the other persons shoes before you do something that may have a bad result on your relationship. Try looking at it from the other person's eyes and try to see how itll make the other person feel. You will never have a good relationship until you learn how to be happy yourself. I know this sounds a little cliched but its true. Once you have inner piece with yourself you will have no problems pleasing your better half. And Im not just talking in a sexual sense either. Life for the 2 of will be so much better off. You have to have great communication between the 2 of you, if you dont understand each other then its pointless to try to talk to each other. Have deep conversations and dont be afraid to share your feelings with the other person. Remember the person is most important, the sex is just a bonus. You should be able to have a relationship with or without it.
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Hehe..VERY WELL PUT!!! I believe in everything you said. Unfortunity im a very stubborn person and dont do it all the time. Although, I have been in love with my girl for a year and she feels the same. (so she says) Your 100% right about cars being a hobby and your partner not. She lets me hook up my car and spend CRAZY money on it but when it comes time on the road to whoop on someone. She will *****, therefore I cant race. Sometimes I can but most of the time she wont let me, which is cool and I respect her judgement because, well, mine sux. Im 19 and havent had a license for a total of 2 years in the 3 years I should have had it. lol..not all at once but hey, ya know how it is!! Nice job RR, I couldnt have said it better myself!!!