where r all the decent people

I would have to strongly agree with you mt.

One thing though that I have seen are guys that are a$$es. My ex, after we broke up, dated tihs one guy who seemed very nice and stuff (told to me by her). Well apparently one night he slipped her something and well you know the rest. Completely pissed me off! I think there are nice guys out there, but a lot to most guys are a$$es.

I continually get asked by girls "Where are all the nice guys?". I tell them, they are there, sometimes hard to find, but they are there.

But I do think mt is right about a girl not always knowing what to do with a guy who is there to treat them good, be nice to them, and the other good stuff a bf type would do. Girls always seem to go for the bad boy type, until they are scarred enough to wise up and relize that is not what they want. Yet they have this ideal in their minds. So when they meet a nice guy who they are looking for, they dont always see them. They miss the guy, then its to late, and most of the time back to the bad boy again. Oh he can change, BS!

I myself dont really drink, its a rare occasion when I do, dont smoke (never appealed to me), and dont do drugs (never!). But I have found that a lot of guys and girls do smoke. Huge turn off. I will not date a girl who smokes. She can be totally attractive and I will not date her if she smokes.

I can live with the drinking if its not meant to get trashed. They kinda annoys me. Im usually the designated walker :-p haha.

I just think both guys and girls should figure out what they want in someone and go to places where you know you can find them. If you want a nice guy, dont go to a biker bar, go to a more calm pool hall, lol. If you want a nice girl, dont go to downtown and pick up a street walker, go to a coffee house or something. Get my drift :-p