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mylittlecivic · 05-02-2003, 12:11 AM

Im depressed its really getting to me! My boyfriend is moving 50 states away to go to college and we want to have a serious relationship but probably wont until he graduates I just dont know waht to do

ohiochica · 05-02-2003, 12:15 AM

awwww, i am here for ya if you want to talk. i know how shitty things can get sometimes but keep your head up.

Racing Rice · 05-02-2003, 06:23 AM

Cheer up, buddy ole pal! You still have us!

Im sure that really helps, right? :o

Whiteclipse99 · 05-02-2003, 08:14 AM

I'm sorry to hear that Anna! Long distant relationships really stink! I had a similar type situation after highschool with my ex boyfriend. He went to college 3 hours away (although not near as far as your boyfriend is moving) and I'd like to tell you that it worked out and the long distant only made our relationship stronger....but it didn't and we had a mutual break up after about 2 months of him being away. It does take a lot of commitment and trust from both sides, but keep your head up Anna because for some couples it does work out!

*pdiggitydogg* · 05-02-2003, 09:15 AM

definately a big thumbs down on that one...I really have no advice for ya...wish I could help you out.

But like it was said, we're here for ya

05-02-2003, 01:15 PM

If this boy means as much to you as you've told me, then I think you need to MAKE it work. The both of you are on teh same page about the important things, dont let a little distance stand in the way of you and a great relationship.

I'm here if you need to talk, though I dont think you really need to talk with anyone about this, you just have to make it work. Invest in a long distance plan and talk alot, fly out there for long weekends and what not.

All the best

Rob · 05-02-2003, 03:15 PM

If you want to talk Anna...I'm here...I'm depressed too so maybe we can help each other...I dunno......

mylittlecivic · 05-02-2003, 10:39 PM

well thanks everyone sometimes you're just what i need

05-03-2003, 12:35 AM

Don't worry, it'll all be good!

05-04-2003, 04:00 PM

good luck on this one

05-07-2003, 11:08 AM

If you figure out all the tricks to a long distance relationship, fill me in

05-07-2003, 03:03 PM

Well your definately going to have to trust one another. And pleas don't be one of those couples who can "see other people" while they are away for long periods of time. That is just plain retarded and ruins the relationship.

05-07-2003, 03:55 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by maikoshi
If you figure out all the tricks to a long distance relationship, fill me in

better start another thread for this one

silver · 05-07-2003, 07:18 PM

http://www.hstuners.com/forums/showt...threadid=15037

just don't do this to him mmkay?

*ChrisCantSkate* · 05-08-2003, 10:00 PM

aww hope you feel better... talk to me on aim if ya need to.

DsBlu01CivEX · 05-08-2003, 10:29 PM

Hey Anna...we all get depressed at some point, it just sucks cuz your's has to be over a long distance relationship. I don't know your situation, but the 2 of you can make it work if you want it to. Both parties have to want to make it work and be willing to make some sacrifices in order to do so. You seem like a strong chick and I think that you're more than able to handle this!

keep your head up and everything will work out how it's supposed to.

mylittlecivic · 05-12-2003, 10:41 PM

yeah I think we'll make it

hey chris ive been wanting to talk to you but never catch you on anymore

05-13-2003, 07:34 AM

You know I went through the same exact thing with my "ex" girlfriend last yearr. Obviously it didn't work out. How long have you two been together. Me and my ex were together for 10 months before I went away. She was in Orlando and I was in Gainesville, 2 hour drive, so it wasn't that far. Let me tell you that she royally pissed me off (marriage shit, DONT TALK ABOUT IT that ruins relationships, not sex) we broke up before I left and she turned PSYCHOTIC

(like suicidal crap) but we decide to give it a try anyway (i was scared

).

Didn't work, she couldn't trust me. I trusted her, but that didnt matter and I was always wrong. and she decided to **** this guy I know also

, lovely girl. She can go to hell

And if you need some helpful hints on what to do in certain situations ask me, I'm a pro. (I tried to break up with her 7 times after I left and about 1,000,000,000,000,000 arguments)

*ChrisCantSkate* · 05-13-2003, 09:13 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by mylittlecivic
yeah I think we'll make it hey chris ive been wanting to talk to you but never catch you on anymore

i've been busy with stuff.. i'll fill ya in when you catch me on aim.

GT40FIED · 05-18-2003, 07:25 AM

LD relationships are so damn tricky. I do, however, wonder why people never worry about their non-sex-having friends when they move. You never have a problem keeping those friends...just the ones you're *ahem* "with". What can I say...my g/f moved out to Los Angeles and slept with an ex boyfriend shortly after. So maybe I'm not the best example. *sigh*

05-18-2003, 04:13 PM

Anna,

I'm sorry, that your b/f went break up, when he gone 2 college far away.

Try to cheer up! Don't be sad! Be happy!

05-02-2003, 12:15 AM	#2
ohiochica Registered User Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: youngstown ohio Age: 45 Posts: 848	awwww, i am here for ya if you want to talk. i know how shitty things can get sometimes but keep your head up. __________________ to all our military: my thoughts and prayers are with you, come home safe and come home soon. Ohio HST members please read this

05-02-2003, 06:23 AM	#3
Racing Rice Project Combat Honda Join Date: Sep 2001 Location: Highland,OH Age: 45 Posts: 7,985	Cheer up, buddy ole pal! You still have us! Im sure that really helps, right? :o __________________ Racing Rice

05-02-2003, 08:14 AM	#4
Whiteclipse99 4th Gear Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: York, Pa Age: 44 Posts: 952	I'm sorry to hear that Anna! Long distant relationships really stink! I had a similar type situation after highschool with my ex boyfriend. He went to college 3 hours away (although not near as far as your boyfriend is moving) and I'd like to tell you that it worked out and the long distant only made our relationship stronger....but it didn't and we had a mutual break up after about 2 months of him being away. It does take a lot of commitment and trust from both sides, but keep your head up Anna because for some couples it does work out! __________________ Don't smoke too much, drink too much, eat too much or work too much. We're all on the road to the grave -- but there's no need to be in the passing lane. -- Robert Orben Last edited by Whiteclipse99 : 05-02-2003 at 12:15 PM.

05-07-2003, 07:18 PM	#14
silver Registered User Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: so cali again Age: 43 Posts: 820	http://www.hstuners.com/forums/showt...threadid=15037 just don't do this to him mmkay? __________________ Distributor of proven performance products from top manufacturers such as: Top Secret, Ings+1, J's Racing, Varis, Amuse, ASM, GP Sports, Air Walker, Garage Defend, Kakimoto, BuddyClub, Feel's, Fujitsubo, Porterfield, KG/MM, ORC, Spoon, Mugen, and more than 200 others. If it's in a Hyper Rev, it's in our reach. http://www.bulletproofautomotive.com

05-08-2003, 10:00 PM	#15
ChrisCantSkate Thought Police Join Date: Aug 2001 Location: orlando florida Age: 40 Posts: 9,662	aww hope you feel better... talk to me on aim if ya need to. __________________ Black Vtec Prelude-h22a power'd Many dreams come true, and some have silver linings. I live for my dreams and a pocket full of gold.

05-02-2003, 09:15 AM	#5
pdiggitydogg Yahoo Watashi wa kattaze! Join Date: May 2002 Location: Meanwhile, up in The D... Age: 41 Posts: 10,579	definately a big thumbs down on that one...I really have no advice for ya...wish I could help you out. But like it was said, we're here for ya

05-02-2003, 01:15 PM	#6
mt.biker Posts: n/a	If this boy means as much to you as you've told me, then I think you need to MAKE it work. The both of you are on teh same page about the important things, dont let a little distance stand in the way of you and a great relationship. I'm here if you need to talk, though I dont think you really need to talk with anyone about this, you just have to make it work. Invest in a long distance plan and talk alot, fly out there for long weekends and what not. All the best

05-03-2003, 12:35 AM	#9
juvenile Posts: n/a	Don't worry, it'll all be good!

05-04-2003, 04:00 PM	#10
Shot 2 Hel Posts: n/a	good luck on this one

05-07-2003, 11:08 AM	#11
maikoshi Posts: n/a	If you figure out all the tricks to a long distance relationship, fill me in

05-07-2003, 03:03 PM	#12
Wabster Posts: n/a	Well your definately going to have to trust one another. And pleas don't be one of those couples who can "see other people" while they are away for long periods of time. That is just plain retarded and ruins the relationship.

05-08-2003, 10:29 PM	#16
DsBlu01CivEX Registered User Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: York Age: 44 Posts: 2,542	Hey Anna...we all get depressed at some point, it just sucks cuz your's has to be over a long distance relationship. I don't know your situation, but the 2 of you can make it work if you want it to. Both parties have to want to make it work and be willing to make some sacrifices in order to do so. You seem like a strong chick and I think that you're more than able to handle this! keep your head up and everything will work out how it's supposed to. __________________ "Oh, I have a goal. And it's to have no goals at all." http://www.myspace.com/kenike

05-13-2003, 07:34 AM	#18
Smokd187 Posts: n/a	You know I went through the same exact thing with my "ex" girlfriend last yearr. Obviously it didn't work out. How long have you two been together. Me and my ex were together for 10 months before I went away. She was in Orlando and I was in Gainesville, 2 hour drive, so it wasn't that far. Let me tell you that she royally pissed me off (marriage shit, DONT TALK ABOUT IT that ruins relationships, not sex) we broke up before I left and she turned PSYCHOTIC (like suicidal crap) but we decide to give it a try anyway (i was scared ). Didn't work, she couldn't trust me. I trusted her, but that didnt matter and I was always wrong. and she decided to **** this guy I know also , lovely girl. She can go to hell And if you need some helpful hints on what to do in certain situations ask me, I'm a pro. (I tried to break up with her 7 times after I left and about 1,000,000,000,000,000 arguments)

05-18-2003, 07:25 AM	#20
GT40FIED Best...mod...ever Join Date: Sep 2001 Location: At the end of the longest line Age: 43 Posts: 7,451	LD relationships are so damn tricky. I do, however, wonder why people never worry about their non-sex-having friends when they move. You never have a problem keeping those friends...just the ones you're ahem "with". What can I say...my g/f moved out to Los Angeles and slept with an ex boyfriend shortly after. So maybe I'm not the best example. sigh __________________ 1984 1/2 Mustang GT350 #842, Faster than you...nuff said Anna Fan Club President/Dictator Someday, in the event that mankind actually figures out what it is that this world actually revoles around, thousands of people are going to be shocked and perplexed that it was not them. Sometimes this includes me. "If you want a vision of the future, imagine a boot stamping on a human face - forever." - George Orwell Welcome to the new Amerika

05-18-2003, 04:13 PM	#21
pbateson Posts: n/a	Anna, I'm sorry, that your b/f went break up, when he gone 2 college far away. Try to cheer up! Don't be sad! Be happy!

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