What my stupid (today ex) gf tried to pull last night... for your amusement.

[Wren57]

I find this rather hilarious, thought I would share so that some of you could find humor in it.

Been dating this girl since St. Patty's day... lately I have realized I don't really like her because she simply isn't fun; she doesn't enhance the fun factor when we go out places, so I've been looking for a reason to get rid of her. Anyway, she calls me last night and tells me she just bought a bottle of EVERCLEAR and was gonna go drink some at a fraternity house. Whatever, I'm going to the bar with a sh!tload of friends. About an hour later she calls me asking for a ride to the bar for her and her friend; I remind her I have a two seater and when she continues asking anyway I just hang up. Five minutes later her friend calls and says "Please come get us some guy is trying to hookup with her and we are both really drunk and just don't know what to do please you don't want her to hookup with him do you?" I just let it be known I wasn't gonna play the 'Get wren jealous so he'll bend over backwards for us' game, so now she's gone.

For the actual part of the thread that people might respond to-

Why do people (not just girls) play games? Is it insecurity and fear that if they open up they will be rejected? A defense mechanism? Any ideas?

[GT40FIED]

I don't think everyone has the same reason for playing games. Some do it out of insecurity...some do it to avoid rejection (if you never ask the question outright, you can't very well get shot down, can you?)...while some do it for control. By inadvertantly asking questions or doing things in a round-about manner, it sort of becomes a game of wits. The sad thing is that people willing to go through all of this type of bullshit usually aren't smart enough to properly display anything close to what i would consider "wit".

[dogyamissedit]

in my experience people play games to prove that they can...like this one girl that I used to talk to would have me staying up late waking up early and drivign all over creation to spend time with her and then would cancel last minute after I was there already...thing is I really liked her so I didn't mind then we kinda stopped talkign for a while and a few months went by and she called me outta the blue and was like meet me at this club so I went and paid $10 to get in and waited for like an hour and she didn't show so I left, she called me 5 mins after I walked out the door and was like "where are you?" I told her I was going home to bed and if she wanted to play games to play them with someone else cause I was sick of her shit...haven't talked to her since...

[mylittlecivic]

Games hurt. Some people play them to "test" you but i think thats fawked up:o

[Grip72]

u rname is Wren?







*chuckles*

[VonDigger]

There was a girl like that I knew from a long time ago. I used to ride her all over hells half acre just to make her happy and to spead time with her. This went on for a while, I dated her for a while after that too. Then we broke up, no biggie to me at the time. Well a few months go by, she gets pregnant and asks me to help her move, like a dumb fuck I say OK. I did everything, including pack, she kept using the excuse that she was pregnant, I got to the point that I just flat out told her, do something or I'm dropping your shit in the middle of the street. After that, she at least packed.

I didn't here from her for a long time after that, then out of the blue, of course after I just did about 30 consecutive hours at 2 jobs, another story. Well, her and her new husband, who was a automechanic, was having problems with one of thier cars. The conversation went something like this.

Cathy: Hey you, how are you doing today?
Me: Tired as shit, I just got home from 2 different jobs, I'm going to bed cause I have to be at another job in like 8 hours, I need to sleep.
Cathy: Well we need help with one of our cars. It blew off a water pump hose.
Me: Is Bill there?
Cathy: Yeah, it's his day off today.
Me: Have him fix it, he used to be an auto mechanic.
Cathy: He doesn't want to. He hates this car.
Me: Well to be honest with you, I don't really want to either. I'm going to bed.

Heres the kicker

Cathy: If you were my freind you would.
Me: I am your freind, but I can't today.
Cathy: Don't talk to me again asshole.
Me: Don't have to tell me twice, seeya! (hangs up the phone)

I hate games.

[MissJDM]

I hate when girls play that shity ass game. My dorm neighbor does the same shit with guys at parties and it gets really old. If he doesn't care, he doesn't get jealous and he doesn't wanna talk to you..get off his effing balls!!
argh.

[Wren57]

She pretty much admitted to being a bitch... then tonight she IMs me at 9pm...

peaches****: im hungry
peaches****: would you love to take me
clearbeerdog: to a place...?
peaches****: huh
clearbeerdog: nvm... where do you wanna go?
peaches****: i don't care
peaches****: somewhere
clearbeerdog: perhaps
peaches****: i would love if you wanted to take me out to eat
clearbeerdog: where do you wanna go?
clearbeerdog: ive eaten so i dont care
peaches****: o
peaches****: well thats no fun
clearbeerdog: shrug
clearbeerdog: if you want i'll come pick ya up you can grab a bite to eat and we'll watch a movie (of your choice)
peaches****: ok
peaches****: do you want to pay for me
clearbeerdog: no
peaches****: but you won $90 at poker
clearbeerdog: so? That doesn’t mean I owe you dinner
peaches****: o
peaches****: thats no fun
clearbeerdog: i think ive paid for enough meals for a while...
clearbeerdog: and booze
peaches****: thats your job
clearbeerdog: oh really?
peaches****: yea
clearbeerdog: you'd better retract that awfully fast
peaches****: nah
clearbeerdog: your loss
peaches****: whats that supposed to mean
clearbeerdog: if it is my job to pay for meals you better start doing my laundry and dishes
peaches****: umm that's not how it works
peaches****: im not your mom
clearbeerdog: and im not your *****
clearbeerdog: you perpetuate the double standard and inequality that exists between the genders today... congratulations, keep up the good work and women will continue to be viewed as inferior


Dumb b!tch... all she managed to do was prove that she isn't worth even f*cking (it wasn't all that good anyway). On to the next one...

[mylittlecivic]

was she drunk? i hope so

[GT40FIED]

Honestly Wren...if a girl ever said anything remotely like that to me I would promptly punch her in the face. It's conversations like that which make me disappointed that you can't send REAL viruses over computers.

[Racing Rice]

Thats why I enjoy never having any money! I just say, sorry I'm broke and people leave me alone.

Sounds like you had a real nice gold digger there. Drive a beater around for a while and see how many chicks date you for you.. Then maybe you'll find an honest relationship.

[Mischief]

haha maybe that's the consequences of driving a 350 :P

[Racing Rice]

Originally posted by Mischief
haha maybe that's the consequences of driving a 350 :P

Seriously! I'm not trying to be an ass, but its something to consider. I met my now wife while I was riding a Schwinn. She had no idea what I drove, and she liked me for me (isn't that a song?)

We've been together for almost 8 years now, and we've been very happy together.

[Addict]

Originally posted by Mischief
haha maybe that's the consequences of driving a 350 :P

Don't inflate his head too much.

Guys should take women out to eat sometimes. Not saying it should happen all the time, but for the most part that's how it works.

Sounds like typical early dating experiences... I'd brush it off.

Originally posted by Racing Rice
Seriously! I'm not trying to be an ass, but its something to consider. I met my now wife while I was riding a Schwinn. She had no idea what I drove, and she liked me for me (isn't that a song?)

We've been together for almost 8 years now, and we've been very happy together.

You were just able to build to suit your needs because you got a youngin'.

I met my fiance driving my '85 Olds and working at Arby's so I know it wasn't for the money then!

[Racing Rice]

Originally posted by Addict

You were just able to build to suit your needs because you got a youngin'.

You know my wife... I did a damn fine job also..

[MissJDM]

Originally posted by Addict
Don't inflate his head too much.

Guys should take women out to eat sometimes. Not saying it should happen all the time, but for the most part that's how it works.

Sounds like typical early dating experiences... I'd brush it off.

Well sure, it doesn't hurt to take a girl out for dinner but to have a girl ASK you take HER to dinner and PAY for HER (sorry ass) after you've already eaten? Damn, sounds like a worthless broad to me.

[Racing Rice]

Originally posted by MissJDM
Damn, sounds like a worthless broad to me.

We call those trifling, gold-diggin, hoochies.