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Old 11-14-2002, 03:20 PM   #5
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yah I definitely agree that you should just have a "heart to heart" with her and let her know how you feel. Explain to her that you understand that she has a bf but that you've been feeling this way for a very long time and just couldn't pass it up. You don't want to pressure her into doing something that she might regret. So, keep it cool. Don't be like "I'm madly in love with you. I think you should dump your bf and spend the rest of your life with me." You don't want to sound "needy or desperate". I think if you act casually about it but sincere, she'll take what you said into consideration as to what to do. She might not break up with her bf to be with you...but I would suggest that you still remain close friends with her. Just because she isn't willing to break things off with him now doesn't mean that she won't later down the road. I'm not saying that you should wait around for her to do so either. You still need to be out playin the field too. You never know who you're gonna find or be introduced to. Good luck with everything and keep us updated!!!

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