yah I too know the guy that has the lesbian tendencies theory. He has something going with it. I completely agree that 99% of girls have lesbian tendencies. Eh, I'd kiss a girl...I don't know that I'd go further than that (but hey who knows I might). My girls and I have discussions a lot at parties/at the bar or club/where ever whether the other girls there were cute/hot/attractive. Actually Erin and I did that last night . We were at a party (ironically enough at the lesbian tendencies dude's house) and when we got in the car afterwards we sorta compared ourselves to the other girls. yah we check out the girls...after we check out the guys of course!!
OH and yes you boys need to get over your little "image" problem and be able to say another guys is attractive. You could always use the line "If I were a girl, I'd find that guy over there cute."