Sounds bad Rob. It seems to me that people are NEVER who they seem to be. Or maybe its the fact that we make them into what we want them to be.
I'll take a personal example. I dated a really messed up girl last year with some very odd characteristics. So we break up i'm screwed up for a while but now i'm over her. Been single since then, now there are a few girls in my life that I talk to about issues. Not many, I can count them all on one hand and I tend not to speak of them much, to anyone.
Well anyway, a girl I've known for sometime seems to be a really nice girl and possible be gf material if things were different and I hadn't said school comes first. So I'm talking to her last week about some we wont get into and she starts saying shit my ex would have said. I take this calmly and remind myself shes a different person. Then for some reason I see a side to her that was just like my ex. I almost hit the roof! I'm trying to figure out if I keep talking to this girl, or drop out of her life.
There are two things I can't understand and maybe you can explain them to me.
Why didn't I see this before?
How come girls are so alike? You seem to find what that stands out from the crowd and you think *dam this girl seem nice* and then boom shes just like all the rest!
