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Originally posted by Whiteclipse99
I've never done that before!  I really need to learn to be more direct. I just can't say no, so I admit I have given a guy the wrong # on purpose in the past. Or I'll give him my right # and then just not answer my phone. I know that's really horrible isn't it? I'm kind of in a situation like that now. A friend of mine, I won't mention any names *cough* Denise *cough*, gave my number (without my permission may I add ) to a guy that we hung out with twice. I'm not interested in him, but he wants to go out on a date with me. So now I've got to tell him I'm not interested. Easy right?.......nooooo! Not for me! I hate telling guys that I'm not interested. I'm just not good at it.
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I was in that situation b4. Not same exact circumstances though. This girl liked me even b4 we met. I had to tell her that I didnt feel the sparks and I wasnt interested. She started crying. I HATE making girls cry. I dont do it very often at all. I just hate it when they cry. It makes me feel so bad, even if i wasnt the one they were crying about. She ended up calling me back 10 min after we hung up asking what she did wrong. I told her it wasnt her. I just didnt feel it.
But I am guilty of one bad thing. When a girl is interested in me and I am not in her. I tend to back off. Even if they say, ok, np, lets just be friends. For some reason I just back off. Stop talking ect. Bad quality on my part and im not proud of it. I really dont know why I do that.