[DsBlu01CivEX]

Ok...I have a couple different guy friends that smoke, do drugs, or drink a lot (or any combo of the 3) and by having some converstations with some of them, they have told me that they'd give up their "nasty habits" for a girlfriend. Would any of you do the same? I'm just curious since I know like 3 or 4 guys that would....I didn't know if it would be a universal trend or not.

I can't say that I'd change anything about myself for a guy unless I wanted to previously change that particular quality. My rule is that if I'm with someone, then I'm with them for a reason and it's not to change them. Sure I might not like some of the things he does, but I'm not gonna make it my life goal to change him or make him stop something that he likes doing (unless of course it puts me in danger). I figure why should I be with someone if I'm gonna try to change them into someone they aren't. I should just try to find exactly what I'm looking for and deal with being single. Am I way off base on this?