Yah I don't think I'd consider myself a pain to any of my previous bfs. They were pains to ME!!!!! Some of you know the story about the last ex.
But that is besides the point. Dude I don't date, neither of my 2 previous exes ever took me out on dates....I couldn't tell you if I actually ever had a REAL date and I'll be 22 in a week. And I truely don't feel sorry about it nor am I down on myself. I don't think that I'm a big loser. Sure I don't have any "balls" to ask guys out (the whole fear of rejection is a lil too much for me...and I kinda like being persued
) but that is my own issue I gotta work out. I have 3 girl friends that I hang out with...the rest of my friends are guys. Which is probably about a group of ~15 close guy friends. Through them, I meet other guys. (always a good thing). A friend of a friend of a friend is never a bad way to meet people of the opposite sex.
Oh and you don't need a chick in your life. It's all in your head. And if you still feel that you do, then start hangin out with all girls. Go out and do stuff with them, you're bound to meet other girls that way.
And nonovurbiz, yes you do have some very powerful words of wisdom. We all should take notes. (I need to try that line where I walk up to the guy and say something nice and that I wanna hang out with him sometime....but I have no "balls" so I won't.)