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Old 10-16-2002, 08:20 PM   #21
nonovurbizniz
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Yer not that bad off dude. You just got to realize that most of the people in the world are imbittered. Your still young so what your going through is totally normal for our generations. The people older than us were just different. Poeple who are in their 30's now had a totally different experience than we did. All of us are sensitive and socially aware, concerned about our and others' feelings. You FEEL like you don't fit in when you actually probobly do you just don't get kicks out of ghey shit like talkin' shit to girls trying to get in their pants. but what you gotta realize is that that is how you get into a girls pants. You don't develop a friendship and in the middle of it sit down and have a talking to her. You just gotta hit on chicks that you find attractive. If it turns out she's nuts or a whore then you dump her and move on. Maybe one of her friends is nice. Thats the other thing man the key is not to let shit get you down... roll with the punches. It seems bad and all and i understand that sometimes it's easier to say than do but... "PULL UP YOUR WRANGLERS AND HAVE ANOTHER BEER".

In the long run you'll look back and regret not optimizing this time of youth. YOU COULD BE GETTING LAID ALL THE TIME. anyone can it's not hard. just talk to chicks. and even if that's not your goal that's the only way to find a good girl is to weed through some TOTALLY ****ED UP ones first.

My best advice to you is Your Not ready to have THE one. YOU ARE WAY WAY WAY Too young. Seriously you may think that's what you want now but for most people who feel like that this young they change their mind later and that ****s everything up. Just don't take everything so seriously NONE of this matters in the long run. We're only around for a short time and wasting any of it pining over anything is silly.

Lastly!
As far as telliing her off. you don't have to do that but... you do NEED to end the relationship. she's just gunna take advantage of you for as long as YOU let her. Put an end to it and you can start working on having some self worth.

There's no reason to think you a loser or any of that shit. if you got all your fingers/toes teeth etc.. your doin better than a shitload of people out there. If you don't believe me go out and FAKE IT. You won't believe the amount of women who will be drooling all over you. CHICKS DIG CONFIDENCE. even if it's not real. (as long as it looks real)

Good Luck it ain't that big a deal.
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