over a year?   how old are you guys?  gotta be young.
1st time, use a condom, u dont want a rudolph.  if u got the skillz and know ur both clean, dont worry about the rubber.  u need some (self) control.  feels 10 times better w/o it  lol.  u just need practice.  
 
GOOD 'OL PULL-OUT METHOD 
 
 