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lemme tell you a lil story ....
i really liked this guy for a while. At the time i had a b/f so i really couldn't persue it, i felt like it was cheating if i even talked to him. I felt all gitty and got the butterfly feeling when i was around him so i knew something was up. Fortuntly, *i know it's mean to think of it this way but, eh* my b/f at the time and i got in a fight and when i didn't have anyone to talk to about it, he was there. I am a very to myself person when it comes to my feelings. I let him in and told him EVERYTHING, putting aside my feelings for him. We talked for hours, as you did with her.
My b/f and i eventually broke up because he had met someone else. I had put off my feelings for this guy out of respect for my b/f. For what, to get shot down.
I called him *nick is his name* and we talked all night, about stupid stuff. About me and my ex, about life, about love. Come to find out that he was dating someone. I was crushed. I should have taken it when it was available. I didn't give up tho, we still talked and i eventually got to the point that i was not going to hide my feeling for him again.
we went out on a date and it was PERFECT. He's was so sweet. he still had a g/f tho, and they were on the rocks so i made the decision to be there for him the way he was for me. IT WORKED!!
They broke up because she wasn't there for him the way he wanted her to be. But, I WAS!!!! We went out again, and hooked up.
we've been together for almost a year!! Things aren't so great now, he's a big control freak and is very protective. He doesn't want what happened with the last one to happen to this one. I love him to death but .... well i'll make my own post for that!!!
bottom line is, there's no hurt in trying. If worse comes to worse, you can always be friends!!! Hope everything works out!!
c ya
MOX
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