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Originally posted by Civic
I see allot of my freinds havin kids and getting marryed.I think there crazy.A good freind of mine just told me his GF is due next month.I personally believe mid 30s 35-39 would be a good age to have kids and get married.Why now???You tie your self down for the next 18+ years then after your too old to do anything.I need to know I can get up and go out when ever and where ever,not worry about kids or a ball and chain.Not to mention financial my job sucks I can't imagine supporting a kid or two plus rent and food and etc....I feel like I'm the only one left,everyone else is trying to rush old age and I'm still the same way I was when I was 15.I wanna drink,stay out all night,drag race,cruise aimlessly for hours on end like the good ol days.Why does everyone want to get old??????
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i see your point, but i want the kids before my next ex wife is 35. after that age she won't be in such a good shape to have a pregnancy, or she will have problems thru the pregnancy, or even the baby come out with problems. i really don't want that. Plus there is the battle of generations. the older you are the more fights you are gonna have with your child. I'm looking at me and my dad. there is a 28 year difference between us, and we are constantly fighting. i'm not saying that i am perfect, and i must say that he is a true idiot sometimes. My uncle is worse than my dad, but he never had that many or that severe fights with my cousin, just because of the age difference of 22 years. i used to live with my cousin and did the same stupid things as he did, but i was in more trouble with my dad than he was.