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Originally posted by cutiepy701
How old are you mt. biker? This just all seems elementary to me. Go talk to her, you are all adults right? I don't mean to be harsh, but someone has to make the first move, and if the girls already strike you as the shy type, then why not take initiative (sp)
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warning this could turn into a rant
i'm 18, but i dont act it. most people take me for someone in my early to mid 20s. That aside i'll get onto why i asked this question.
Shy girls make me feel uneasy. Let me explain.... if someones saying something if its the truth or not it doesn't matter you can tell a lot by the way someone says something. With a shy girl you can't tell whats going on in her head because shes so closed up its really hard to get inside. To add to this, typically i'm an outgoing person and well i express what i'm thinking/feeling.. but the moment i'm around a girl who is shy i moddify my behavour as not to be overwelming. Over the years and most recently i learned i needed to do this in business. This leads to a quieter rob and i typically rain in on the agression that i might display otherwise. this leads to a different rob then i typically am, and well i dont get done what i want to.
Then theres another thing, girls have this power over guys. I have trouble explaining it, well anyways i dont want to fall into the bs a bad relationship could bring and i'm wondering if a shy person will make it that much harder to find out if shes gf material.
So with this question i'm trying to decide if i should bother with her or put her in the back of my mind and wait till i get to hawaii to start thinking about girls.