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Dude,
Listen to Mt. Biker. This post made me sign up for this forum. You don't want to be her friend, I'm telling you. She is trying to use you. She is saying that she wants to be your friend, and you two will still hang out and stuff...be close. The reason she is doing this is because she really doesn't want to be alone, she just wants someone else. But if you play her game and be there for her, she will keep you around until she finds, what she thinks she wants in another guy, then she will say goodbye to you.
If you truly love this girl. Stay away from her. If you have in the back of your mind that you want to get back together with her, then stay away. That will bother her more, and if she sees you with your "group of friends" and sees that your really ok with the situation, that will drive her crazy and she will want to come back.
Little history of me-
I was dating this girl for 5 years. Every fall, she would break up with me for no reason. And I would play the "friends" game and we would end up getting back together around thanksgiving. I was a fool for taking her back 5 different times. Well- it comes to her going to cancun over spring break of this year, and she decides to cheat on me. Looking back, the biggest mistake i made was trying to be her friend that first fall when she decided that i wasn't what she wanted at the time. I haven't talked to her since she called me and told me that she cheated on me...and that was in the middle of march. Point is, I played this little games and when i thought I had won, I was actually just setting myself up for a bigger loss.
Protect yourself and stay away from her. If you're a cool dude, it's her loss and hopefully the next lady you have will realize how cool you and and you won't fight over every stupid thing.
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